from my last posts, I told everyone that my wife wanted a separation and moved out of state with my 2 kids and a month later she told me that she wanted a divorce. Now every time i call my kids she doesn't even talk to me.. she just gives the phone to the kids and then hangs up.. Why is she acting like this.. I never gave her a reason to be this way..

My first guess is it's too hard for her to carry through on the separation/divorce if she has to interact with you, so she's protecting her decision. Nothing to do with you.

Is there someone else involved that may be pushing her along?