Need advice - 05/14/19 04:11 AM
A little background on me: My soon-to-be-ex and I went to a marriage builder's weekend back in 2010. He ended up being a serial cheater ~ I have proof of at least 10 other women. As if the affairs weren't bad enough the emotional abuse was worse. We have 3 preteen children. I filed for divorce 2 years ago and was only able to get him to move out of our house by court order 1 1/2 months ago. Long story short, my son accidentally read text messages between him and a mother of a child from my son's soccer team, telling each other how in love they were, etc. My son was devastated. They have only been seeing each other 5 weeks from my deductions.
This other woman has a son that is 13 and one that is 15. Last year her husband committed suicide and her oldest son found him. Needless to say, they went and are still going through hell. She and I were friends before my ex and her got together. My question is: should I warn her about him? Just 2 days ago he was trying to convince me to get back together with him and completely denied having a girlfriend. I KNOW that he will cheat on her and I do not want her or her sons to have to go through that. Nor do I want my son to have to deal with seeing this other woman at soccer, etc. I DO NOT want him back so this is not a vengeful act. I just feel like she needs to be warned. I sure would want to be warned. I am sure that he has painted a picture of me as a crazy ex, yada, yada. So how do I approach her so she can hear me and know I am just trying to look out for her.
He has already begun to bully me and be very hostile because he suspects I know something. He does not know that my son told me about her.
Help!!!
This other woman has a son that is 13 and one that is 15. Last year her husband committed suicide and her oldest son found him. Needless to say, they went and are still going through hell. She and I were friends before my ex and her got together. My question is: should I warn her about him? Just 2 days ago he was trying to convince me to get back together with him and completely denied having a girlfriend. I KNOW that he will cheat on her and I do not want her or her sons to have to go through that. Nor do I want my son to have to deal with seeing this other woman at soccer, etc. I DO NOT want him back so this is not a vengeful act. I just feel like she needs to be warned. I sure would want to be warned. I am sure that he has painted a picture of me as a crazy ex, yada, yada. So how do I approach her so she can hear me and know I am just trying to look out for her.
He has already begun to bully me and be very hostile because he suspects I know something. He does not know that my son told me about her.
Help!!!