Repost: Why is it the Betrayer is better off?

.[ December 14, 2001: Message edited by: Family Man ]

Now I really feel crummy. I hate being right in my predictions. Here it is 15 months after I started that thread. My H is still unemployed, and now married to the OW. He is paying hardly any child support. I recently started a new job that I enjoy and that does have health benefits, but with working and taking six credits of graduate courses (essential for my job) working another job is not really an option. (I have time to spend on this message board at the moment mainly because it is Christmas break).

Nellie1 - That was not the purpose. I've seen, and asked this question in recent days. I felt the "repost" helped me understand the issues better.I can have it deleted if you feel it does not have value.Dan

Family Man,No, there is no point in deleting it. It is depressing, but just as true today as it was over a year ago.I am curious as to in what way this thread helped you understand the issues better.