My littel God's Breeze - 07/19/04 03:03 AM
For the past 5 1/2 yrs I have wondered why this affair mess struck my family? At first, I thought & really truely believed that it would be so we could minster to others so they would not go down the path we had done.
Four yrs ago I thought I was given the answer to my prayers when we moved overseas. Yeah no more OW, well I was wrong (if you don't know my story & most here don't any more, it is much to long for now). Between my then WH and OS I spent 10 of the most hellish months of my life. Thanks to those who were here who helped me get through every day toward the end.
Three years ago, when WH chose to move back to OW, I all but lost my faith. I could not understand why my family had to be torn apart, my children hurt so very much. We surivied. My OS has had some very rough times, and maybe at 20 finally getting it togther. But still why? Were any of us better off?
However tonight I had what FlyLady if you read her site calls a God's Breeze. Maybe we had to go through all this so my YS could help his friends through the same things. His best friend has been dealing with his parents split up for over a yr, and while YS doesn't talk very much about it, I know they talk.
But this afternoon, a friend of YS came by and then they went back to this kid's house. YS calls later about going to the movies. The other kid's mom gets on the phone, and she said you know I am sorry you had to go through this but it is so good for her son to have my YS, someone who has been there, done that and surivied.
For some reason this really helped me.....you think after all this time I would not need the help.....
Four yrs ago I thought I was given the answer to my prayers when we moved overseas. Yeah no more OW, well I was wrong (if you don't know my story & most here don't any more, it is much to long for now). Between my then WH and OS I spent 10 of the most hellish months of my life. Thanks to those who were here who helped me get through every day toward the end.
Three years ago, when WH chose to move back to OW, I all but lost my faith. I could not understand why my family had to be torn apart, my children hurt so very much. We surivied. My OS has had some very rough times, and maybe at 20 finally getting it togther. But still why? Were any of us better off?
However tonight I had what FlyLady if you read her site calls a God's Breeze. Maybe we had to go through all this so my YS could help his friends through the same things. His best friend has been dealing with his parents split up for over a yr, and while YS doesn't talk very much about it, I know they talk.
But this afternoon, a friend of YS came by and then they went back to this kid's house. YS calls later about going to the movies. The other kid's mom gets on the phone, and she said you know I am sorry you had to go through this but it is so good for her son to have my YS, someone who has been there, done that and surivied.
For some reason this really helped me.....you think after all this time I would not need the help.....