Help! I just don't know what to do!?? - 03/18/05 09:23 PM
It has been a while since my last post but things are still just about the same. Just to be clear I am not there to learn how to take/bring her back. I am hear because the D is unavoidable and she is getting in the way of my social life. Here goes the story.......
When I got back from Vermont a while ago I found out that she had taked out a restraining order against me. I have no problem with that. I was very much over alot of the garbage that I had been buried in by her. I was getting alot of help from my new friends at an auto parts store in the town where I work. As soon as she realized what I was doing there she got a job working for the same store. I would not have a problem with this except that her restraining order is now keeping me away from my new proto-social life. I am just furious about the way she is acting right now. I would start over again but I am sure that she would just plop her a** right down in the middle of any new life I may attempt to build. How do you handle a situation like this? can I consider her getting a job with my friends harassment? If so would it hold up in court? Somebody please help I really need advice on this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
When I got back from Vermont a while ago I found out that she had taked out a restraining order against me. I have no problem with that. I was very much over alot of the garbage that I had been buried in by her. I was getting alot of help from my new friends at an auto parts store in the town where I work. As soon as she realized what I was doing there she got a job working for the same store. I would not have a problem with this except that her restraining order is now keeping me away from my new proto-social life. I am just furious about the way she is acting right now. I would start over again but I am sure that she would just plop her a** right down in the middle of any new life I may attempt to build. How do you handle a situation like this? can I consider her getting a job with my friends harassment? If so would it hold up in court? Somebody please help I really need advice on this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />