A Strange Issue - 03/18/05 11:57 PM
I have noted for a long time that there are lots more women on these boards than men. I assume this is because, generally, women are more interested in understanding & healing relationships than men.
Also, it appears that women tend to to be more willing to reciprocate when their needs are met. And it is very rare that men will be the ones who are willing to start meeting the needs of the wife, with only a distant hope of having their own needs met.
So is it possible that the relatively small number of men on this forum are the exceptions to these rules? Could it be that the men here are willng & able to go the extra mile, reach out to a woman, meet her needs, and make the changes that would fulfill their wives?
I say this because when a woman whose H was unfaithful and the marriage ends, if she meets a man from these forums who really does buy into the MB principles, that woman seems to be very happy, such as in the case of Lost Husband/Faith HopeLove04.
Anyway, any thoughts are welcome.
Also, it appears that women tend to to be more willing to reciprocate when their needs are met. And it is very rare that men will be the ones who are willing to start meeting the needs of the wife, with only a distant hope of having their own needs met.
So is it possible that the relatively small number of men on this forum are the exceptions to these rules? Could it be that the men here are willng & able to go the extra mile, reach out to a woman, meet her needs, and make the changes that would fulfill their wives?
I say this because when a woman whose H was unfaithful and the marriage ends, if she meets a man from these forums who really does buy into the MB principles, that woman seems to be very happy, such as in the case of Lost Husband/Faith HopeLove04.
Anyway, any thoughts are welcome.