carriemom, do I like this age span? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Sometimes it's great: less rivalry, the older one is a "helper" and the younger so adores the older, etc. On the other hand, sometimes it's frustrating they won't ever be on a similar level about anything (discipline, reading books, etc.); they each think treatment is "unfair" (but maybe that is true of any age!) and boss each other around too much (ditto). I didn't plan mine this way (I'm starting to wonder if we plan ANYTHING in this world!), as we had 3 losses between them. We are considering adopting a child between them, maybe in a couple years. I'm homeschooling and it would be great to have more in my "school"
; I love the bigger families in our homeschool group. I really enjoy the whole "soccer mom" bit (my 8yo boy is really into sports).<P>Anyway, the thing I'm trying is called Grounding with chores and is only for school-age. I use time-outs with the 2yo. The rules are at: <A HREF="http://www.parentingdoc.com/grounding.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.parentingdoc.com/grounding.html</A> <P>So far, I like it. But I still lose my patience when I'm hungry or trying to finish something and they are fussing at each other. I know it's really important to take care of myself, too.<P>What is your favorite thing about parenting? What's your favorite discipline technique? <BR>