CS question/oc might not be my dh's!!! - 12/20/02 01:16 AM
As you can see from my signature, my dh is *possibly* the father of an oc.
Get this, about 3 weeks ago, the exow asked my BROTHER-IN-LAW for a paternity test. NOT my dh. He refused. She told him that she didn't want any money, just to be able to tell her child who the dad is. (why would she need a test if she's so sure??) Apparently, she told him that she knew that the child was his and that if he wouldn't take the test, she'd go thru child support.
From what I know, he hasn't received any papers in the mail. Do any of you know how long it takes to get the ball rolling on that?
I have no idea why she would've claimed that my dh was the father and told me all the things that she did, when she knew that my dh's BROTHER was the father. I don't understand why she'd put herself and all of us thru that. Especially because some people find me rather intimidating and would never want to get me too angry. (which I find funny! I don't see myself that way, but know that she did)
Please keep me and my family in your prayers. I am not counting my blessings yet, but if that boy ends up not being my dh's, I will feel that a true miracle has occurred! But WHY hasn't my bil received any papers yet and what the hell is she thinking?????
Get this, about 3 weeks ago, the exow asked my BROTHER-IN-LAW for a paternity test. NOT my dh. He refused. She told him that she didn't want any money, just to be able to tell her child who the dad is. (why would she need a test if she's so sure??) Apparently, she told him that she knew that the child was his and that if he wouldn't take the test, she'd go thru child support.
From what I know, he hasn't received any papers in the mail. Do any of you know how long it takes to get the ball rolling on that?
I have no idea why she would've claimed that my dh was the father and told me all the things that she did, when she knew that my dh's BROTHER was the father. I don't understand why she'd put herself and all of us thru that. Especially because some people find me rather intimidating and would never want to get me too angry. (which I find funny! I don't see myself that way, but know that she did)
Please keep me and my family in your prayers. I am not counting my blessings yet, but if that boy ends up not being my dh's, I will feel that a true miracle has occurred! But WHY hasn't my bil received any papers yet and what the hell is she thinking?????