My BIL was served papers but not my husband? Questions!! - 01/31/03 11:50 PM
Hi there. I haven't been around in awhile because I haven't had to deal with oc issues. I do have some questions if anyone can help.
Ok, I was chatting with a fellow MB'er yesterday. After chatting with her, I decided to call my mil to see what was going on. Apparently, the x-ow named my BIL as father. We assumed that it was just him, but after talking to my mil, she told me that my husband was on the list of men as possibilities.
My question is this....Why didn't we get any papers? Or did we and I just don't know about it? How can I find that out? Why would my dh's name be listed and given on another man's papers and we didn't know about it? Seems odd that we'd have to find out from him.
This is all just too crazy. I thought that one of my dh's brother's might be the donor, but it turns out that it was the OTHER brother! So, she's screwed all 3 of the men in that family. They all make me sick.
Also, I am pregnant now. I am 5months along. I wonder how that would work for cs if my dh is the one? How can I really find out all of the answers to cs questions? I want her to get as little as possible. My kids and I shouldn't have to pay the price for what they did.
Ok, I was chatting with a fellow MB'er yesterday. After chatting with her, I decided to call my mil to see what was going on. Apparently, the x-ow named my BIL as father. We assumed that it was just him, but after talking to my mil, she told me that my husband was on the list of men as possibilities.
My question is this....Why didn't we get any papers? Or did we and I just don't know about it? How can I find that out? Why would my dh's name be listed and given on another man's papers and we didn't know about it? Seems odd that we'd have to find out from him.
This is all just too crazy. I thought that one of my dh's brother's might be the donor, but it turns out that it was the OTHER brother! So, she's screwed all 3 of the men in that family. They all make me sick.
Also, I am pregnant now. I am 5months along. I wonder how that would work for cs if my dh is the one? How can I really find out all of the answers to cs questions? I want her to get as little as possible. My kids and I shouldn't have to pay the price for what they did.