Tough Day! - 12/10/10 07:33 PM
Hi guys,
I'm not feeling good. I took DD12 (almost 13) to see the judge today because she wants to ask to end shared custody. (At the moment it's a routine of 2 weeks with me and 1 with him). THis is the end of my 2 weeks. They are with him (and OW) now. He knew she was going to see the judge and has been putting a lot of psychological pressure on her. He sent lots of emails bullying me by saying that he WOULD take her. I said no. Also he was there today in the waiting room and insisted on taking her back with him. Technically it was still my time because he gets them after school but I let it go because I know she absolutely hates to be in a fight.
I know what's best for the girls is to be with me but I am so tired sometimes. I now have to work full time and then come home and look after the girls. DD12's marks at school are disasterous and so we've been working every evening once the 3 little ones are in bed to revise her classes and help her with homework. I have no family in this country and I am still not divorced (the proceedings started beg March 2009)
Sorry for the moan, I think I might be coming down with the flu.
I'm not feeling good. I took DD12 (almost 13) to see the judge today because she wants to ask to end shared custody. (At the moment it's a routine of 2 weeks with me and 1 with him). THis is the end of my 2 weeks. They are with him (and OW) now. He knew she was going to see the judge and has been putting a lot of psychological pressure on her. He sent lots of emails bullying me by saying that he WOULD take her. I said no. Also he was there today in the waiting room and insisted on taking her back with him. Technically it was still my time because he gets them after school but I let it go because I know she absolutely hates to be in a fight.
I know what's best for the girls is to be with me but I am so tired sometimes. I now have to work full time and then come home and look after the girls. DD12's marks at school are disasterous and so we've been working every evening once the 3 little ones are in bed to revise her classes and help her with homework. I have no family in this country and I am still not divorced (the proceedings started beg March 2009)
Sorry for the moan, I think I might be coming down with the flu.