Can Ya'll help me devise a plan? - 03/25/11 01:48 PM
Someone else had a thread about exposing an affair and the advice given was to expose.
So, that being said. I need help devising a plan. I have a girlfriend who is NOT married, but has been in a relationship and living with a man for the past several years.
His work schedule is hectic, so he often stays in a city a few hours away and doesn't come home for a couple days at a time. He is a rescue volunteer as well as an HVAC guy, so he stays at the fire house a lot during the week to cut back on the commute.
While, I have no physical proof of her having an affair. I know what she has told me. I DO personally know of one EA (over the internet) that has been going off and on for a few years. She's told me of a few PAs that have happened during that past too. I know she sends questionable photos to men on the internet as well.
Now, the problem is, she can embellish the truth a bit. And I'm afraid, without any HARD evidence, this man will simply ignore what I have to say and most likely say it's me trying to get the heat off myself, since they know that my affair has been exposed. Or at least, that's what I'm telling myself.
How should I go about telling the man? Do I get hard evidence, then present to him? Do I just simply tell him, you need to keep an eye on her? Do I direct him here?
So, that being said. I need help devising a plan. I have a girlfriend who is NOT married, but has been in a relationship and living with a man for the past several years.
His work schedule is hectic, so he often stays in a city a few hours away and doesn't come home for a couple days at a time. He is a rescue volunteer as well as an HVAC guy, so he stays at the fire house a lot during the week to cut back on the commute.
While, I have no physical proof of her having an affair. I know what she has told me. I DO personally know of one EA (over the internet) that has been going off and on for a few years. She's told me of a few PAs that have happened during that past too. I know she sends questionable photos to men on the internet as well.
Now, the problem is, she can embellish the truth a bit. And I'm afraid, without any HARD evidence, this man will simply ignore what I have to say and most likely say it's me trying to get the heat off myself, since they know that my affair has been exposed. Or at least, that's what I'm telling myself.
How should I go about telling the man? Do I get hard evidence, then present to him? Do I just simply tell him, you need to keep an eye on her? Do I direct him here?