Plan B withdrawal - how to stay dark! - 04/30/12 07:31 PM
Lots of BSs over the years on this forum, have taken the MB advice to go into Plan B when the affair is still active or it has ended, but the spouse won't prevent a recurrance or future affairs by refusing to do full recovery.
There are many who seem to go into Plan B happily enough, but three common factors appear to make them break their plan.
1)They expect it to be temporary and for the wayward spouse to be on bended knee in under a month.
2) Withdrawal from their beloved spouse is too painful and they give in to temptation
3) They are not prepared to be ambushed by the WS and they let the ambush knock them down.
Anybody going into Plan B needs to understand that they will go through a short period of withdrawal and longing for their WS. It is painful but TEMPORARY and it will not hurt as much as an FR which is where they were headed before.
There are many who seem to go into Plan B happily enough, but three common factors appear to make them break their plan.
1)They expect it to be temporary and for the wayward spouse to be on bended knee in under a month.
2) Withdrawal from their beloved spouse is too painful and they give in to temptation
3) They are not prepared to be ambushed by the WS and they let the ambush knock them down.
Anybody going into Plan B needs to understand that they will go through a short period of withdrawal and longing for their WS. It is painful but TEMPORARY and it will not hurt as much as an FR which is where they were headed before.