Crisis Mode - 05/28/14 01:44 AM
Hello, I am in a state of shock so please bear with me. I have been a lurker on this board for a year and a half. I discovered my husband of 19 years,together for 25, was involved in a texting affair with an old girlfriend. Here is where I hang my head in shame,I never exposed. I know all you well known posters are banging your heads.
Saturday eve I discovered the affair never ended and became physical. I am devastated. I need advice,I need a plan. I have begun exposure. Contacted the OW husband,he discover himself three weeks ago. Contacted the pastor at our church and we are meeting tomorrow.
We have two children 18 and 14.
I went through discovery 1.5 years ago and am right back where I started x100. I trusted no contact was happening I am a fool. I have spent the last 1.5 desperately trying to clean my side of the street and he has spent that time telling me "I am not sure I want to remain married" and a million other excuses.
I have been a stay at home mom for 15 years. Working part time for the last year as an hourly instructional assistant at a local school.
I hope my rambling makes sense. I had slept 4 hours since Saturday night and my mind is racing. This is my first post on this forum and have no idea how to reply with quotes etc. Please be patient and I will do my best to listen and learn
Thanks
Saturday eve I discovered the affair never ended and became physical. I am devastated. I need advice,I need a plan. I have begun exposure. Contacted the OW husband,he discover himself three weeks ago. Contacted the pastor at our church and we are meeting tomorrow.
We have two children 18 and 14.
I went through discovery 1.5 years ago and am right back where I started x100. I trusted no contact was happening I am a fool. I have spent the last 1.5 desperately trying to clean my side of the street and he has spent that time telling me "I am not sure I want to remain married" and a million other excuses.
I have been a stay at home mom for 15 years. Working part time for the last year as an hourly instructional assistant at a local school.
I hope my rambling makes sense. I had slept 4 hours since Saturday night and my mind is racing. This is my first post on this forum and have no idea how to reply with quotes etc. Please be patient and I will do my best to listen and learn
Thanks