10 Year's on........ - 06/26/15 06:59 PM
Hi everyone.
I was just thinking the other day that I really should do a drive-by and say Hi to all my friends as it's now been 10 years since the worst time of my life when my wife went briefly nuts and had an affair.
10 years is like a drop i the ocean of time now - we have been married for 33 years this year - most of it happily.
Owe it all pretty much to Marriage Builders and the wonderful friends and support we found here.
What really prompted me to post I guess is that I found out the other day that the OM and his wife have now divorced. They were in a long term affairage - 20+ years but eventually the stink prevailed and they divorced.
After all this time, I must confess it's still something I think about often and the OM is someone I think about every day. It's just always with you. I know that's a horrifying thought for many people but it just 'is' - it's not something that I want to think about and it doesn't affect me emotionally - it just 'is'
My wife and I are very happy and in love. We are empty nesters and have been for some time. Life is Good and God is great.
Love to all my dear friends.
I was just thinking the other day that I really should do a drive-by and say Hi to all my friends as it's now been 10 years since the worst time of my life when my wife went briefly nuts and had an affair.
10 years is like a drop i the ocean of time now - we have been married for 33 years this year - most of it happily.
Owe it all pretty much to Marriage Builders and the wonderful friends and support we found here.
What really prompted me to post I guess is that I found out the other day that the OM and his wife have now divorced. They were in a long term affairage - 20+ years but eventually the stink prevailed and they divorced.
After all this time, I must confess it's still something I think about often and the OM is someone I think about every day. It's just always with you. I know that's a horrifying thought for many people but it just 'is' - it's not something that I want to think about and it doesn't affect me emotionally - it just 'is'
My wife and I are very happy and in love. We are empty nesters and have been for some time. Life is Good and God is great.
Love to all my dear friends.