Laziness & living together before marriage - 08/16/08 06:26 PM
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Laziness after marriage is a huge problem for couples who lived together before marriage. The commitment of marriage does not make them more willing to meet each other's needs, it makes them less willing, because they figure that the other person is now committed. But the high rate of divorce in these relationships proves that the commitment of marriage really doesn't mean much when emotional needs are no longer met. A high percentage of these marriages don't last through the first year.
A Harley quote from the site.
Living together before marriage DECREASES the willingness to meet each others ENs after marriage.
It's the old "renter" problem -
"renter" was good enough to live together before marriage - and therefore "renter" doesn't change to "buyer" after marriage .... the ship usually sinks for lack of commitment by either person to maintain seaworthiness.
Interesting.
Pep