It would be nice for you to say thanks for the compliment like:
Only the best advice givers and skilled virtual marriage salvagers have the intestinal fortitude to come on here day in and day out and dole out the straight forward unfiltered reality of saving a marriage once subjected to infidelity.
rather than taking every opportunity to point out what I already know to be true.
I didnt really ask for update on your thoughts on my marriage.
I really only wanted to hear from my friend who, I believe, would agree with my statement.