I am confused, whats up with this - 08/04/01 07:52 PM
i have found this out after my wifes affair and I am confused. She never loved me for the 18 Years of marriage ,she told daughter I never loved her for the lenght of our marriage, told sis/inlaw her marriage is in good shape . She doesnt want a relationship that she has to work at. Being a good Mom and my wife wasnt good enough, she could have been somuch more.Was planning to leave while kids were out of town and leave note , these are the same 2 kids she would die for . When talking with her now about whats left and possible of our marriage she gets defenceive starts shaking , yelling that she is being pressured , refuses to see councler or at least will not say yes or no.<BR>wwhen she had problems with me during our marriage she woldnt say anything to me about , because she didnt want to burden me with here problems, she was affraid of me , didnt you see me crying you should have known ther was something wrong. <BR>She has moved out of the house , kids are with me , she does not live w/om but sees him plenty, what am I up against<BR>is ther a chance to salvage this , I still love her and want her back , Kids still love her but are concerend about the lies she tells them . Is ther any one out there that can shed some light on this ?