Marriage Builders
It is very, very important that you know if your character is suitable for long term living together wirh the character of your partner. And with the character of your child.
Mention your date of birth (with year and m/f) and I'll give the insight with some good advivce, if needed. Bye, Jaap Hillen
BB
You are born in 1961 in the year of the OX. He58: DOG. On my "Character Combination Card" is mentioned for long term living together of
OX-wife with DOG-man "difficult",
but possible, as long as she contents herself with running a home. Both are loyal and will take their conjugal duties seriously.Their difficulties could arise from her overbearing attitude and rigid opinions. He prefers free speech and equality and may not humor the narrow-minded Ox for too long. She may resent his overdirect and outspoken ways; she can nurse grievances for a long time. They both shun pettiness and injustice, but are sometimes guilty of these faults themselves. A relationship that needs a lot of understanding and compromise.
Why didn't you mention the date of birth of your children for the "Parent-Child" combination.
Any questions? Bye, Jaap Hillen
I'll bite here is both

mine: male Feb 4 1961

her: female(of course) March 3 1968

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She is born in 1968, in the year of the Monkey. He61, of before Febr 21: Rat.
Monkey-wife with Rat-man "good"..
The Monkey will be happy with the Rat. The Rat is fascinated by the Monkey and will forgive her anything. Strongly compatible as he will fall for her charm and ingenuity and she will find his go-getter attitude very admirable. They are both achievement-conscious and will push each other up the ladder of succes. They are not hypersensitive and can accept each other's faults with understanding. They could work together or choose separate paths or careers without any trouble. Likewise, they will be able to smooth out any rough spots in their reltionship.
Monkey and Rat belong together (with Dragon) to the same trio, the trio of initiators; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties. Bye, Jaap Hillen
Gee, You couldn't decribe us any better though knowing she is a little monkey at times is alright but me being a Rat is not what I call the most flattering thing that has been said to me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Thanks for the input and alittle confindance building here.

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I'm intrigued....

Me: January 19, 1969
Him: October 27, 1970
Me, too....

Me - 4/28/66
Him - 6/9/61

I appreciate your insight!
KARY
You are born in 1969 before 17 February: MONKEY. He70: DOG
Monkey-wife with Dog-man "perhaps".
Maybe .... with reservations. They are both cynical and without illusion. If both are generous and forgiving enough to discount the othert's frailties. She will admire the Dog for his sensible approach and logical outlook; no one knows the value of intelligence more than she. He, on the other hand, sees her as a capable go-getter and will appreciate her witty and charming personality. She is the more materialistic of the two and he is more idealistic. She values tangible wealth. He puts his principles first. Together they could contently travel the middle of the road.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
LOST
You are born in 1966, in the year of the HORSE. He61: OX.
Horse-wife with Ox-man "difficult"
They don't really understand each other. The female Horse, independant and emotional, fears the Ox. She'll suffer.
Not many favorable aspects for this match. She is carefree and uninhibited and he is industrious and down to earth. He wants a well organized and pleasant home and she is too restless und busy to stay pinned down. She needs freedom and diversion. He cannot comprehend her instability and lack of devotion to him. Difficult for either to find complete harmony. The conservative and authoritative Ox is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The Ox is the boss!
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Can I get in on this? Me: 4-22-65
Her 5-30-66

This character thing has me intrigued as well.
i'll hop on too...

me 11-14-78
wife 6-2-80
I will bite

me - f - 10/02/58

him - m - 04/11/50
All right, I'll bite:

Me: March 3, 1968
Wife: June 15, 1969
Ok, me next, please.

Me- 6-17-64

Him 03-27-62

Thanks, C
PMILLER
She is born in 1966, in the year of the HORSE. He65: SNAKE.
On the "Character Combination Pocket Card" is mentioned for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with SNAKE-man "difficult"
The Horse is amorous, but faithful. When love has gone, the Horse goes too. Each has a different approach to life. He is cautious, tenacious and strong-willed, his goals are long term. She is adventurous, mercurial and impatient. She cares more for the joys of the moment. He is consistent in his endeavors; she is impulsive, quick-witted but inconsistent. He finds her irresponsible and hard to keep up with, while she dislikes his serious, calm and deliberate mental deductions. Not a very satisfying union for either. Bye, Jaap Hillen
BRENTINSC
She is born in 1980, in the year of the MONKEY. He78: HORSE.
Monkey-wife with Horse-man "perhaps".
Not advised. They'll never understand each orther. Both are adaptable and intelligent enough to leap over obstacles barring their progress. But their very similarities may breed mutual contempt. Because, just as he is partical and opportunistic, she can be equally unscrupulous. She is versatile and adroit and he may irritate her by his shrewd and mercurial movements. The Monkey is bright and beguiling while the Horse is equally witty and persuasive. They may end up trying to con each other into submission.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
UNIQUE
You are born in 1958, in the year of the DOG. He50: TIGER.
DOG-wife with TIGER-man "good"
This could be good. They would share the same ideals, fight the same battles. But they might forgot to love each other.
Dog and Tiger belong together (with Horse) to the same trio, the trio of the doers; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
An ideal marriage combination of two charming, attractive and humanitarian signs. He is passionate and animated. She is loyal, understanding and helpful. The Tiger is impulsive and impatient; the Dog is logical and clear-headed enough to advise him without getting personal. He admires and respects her loyalty and good sense and she will not try to monopolize his affections. Each is warm and responsive to other's needs without invading his or her privacy. A very satisfactory arangement for both sides.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Please I still love my exH and hope for he'll be back some day-can it be?

me-f Dec 20th 1958

exH March 4th 1959

his new wife Sept 3rd 1968

and if you have a bit more time, i met a man still can't say I am in love with him but maybe.... he: April 1st 1943

If I expect too much, I'll understand.
If not: thank you so much

D
HASATUDE
She is born in 1969, in the year of the ROOSTER. He68: MONKEY
Rooster-wife with Monkey-man "perhaps"
Both are ambitious and crave acclaim and recognition. These two materialistic and similarly powerful personalities may clash more often than they cooperate if they insist on maintaining their affections. The Monkey man likes to get things done with a minimum of fuss and supervision. He prides himself on his ingenuity and innate capabilities. The Rooster is efficient and fastidious. She's prone to looking over his shoulder and picking up on his imperfections. They try each other's patience and endurance. He cannot stand her questioning and love for argument. She finds him too sure of himself and conceited to pay her much mind, let alone heed the advice she readily dishes out. Both are going to find the ride pretty rough unless they are willing to admit to some of their inherent shortcomings and meet the other halfway.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
FIREFLY
You are born in 1964, in the year of the DRAGON. He62: TIGER.
DRAGON-wife with TIGER-man "perhaps".
Two strong characters face to face. The female Dragon will be useful to the Tiger, bringing him both prudence and the quality of looking before he leaps.
Both are energetic, ambitious and brave. They could overstimulate each other in the proces. With both of them being innovative and daring, there may be no one to finish the job after their mutual initial enthusiasm fades away. The Dragon wife has aspirations for leadership and will fight the Tiger for dominance. He will let her get away with some things so long as she does not restrict his actions and expect him to be docile. They will only cooperate succesfully after much adjustment on both sides. Bye, Jaap Hillen
jaaphillen: Fun thread!! And we need some fun around here.

Me (female) 12/8/58
X (male) 4/28/60

Special friend (male) 7/8/57

Thanks.
i can't resist,

Me: June 21, 1957 (male)
W: May 29, 1954 (female)

hol
BETRAYED
You are born in 1958, in the year of the DOG. He-ex59: PIG. He43: GOAT.. She-new wife68: MONKEY.
On the "Character Combination Card" is mentioned for long term living together of
DOG-wife with PIG-man "good"
Great. Love based om mutual understanding and esteem. A kind and agreeable relationship despite their differing attitudes toward life. Both are robust, open and honest and like doing their best whenever possible. However, the Dog could be aggressive and will not withhold her criticism if the Pig is too self-indulgent or lax in his duties. She is not as passionate as he, and may lack understanding of his large appetites and sensuality. Still, they could find common grounds for cooperate as the Dog has more insight than the Pig and will be loyal to him. Likewise, the Pig is tolerant and generous enough to forgive the Dog's peculiarities and see her as the trustworthy and noble ally she is.
DOG-wife with GOAT-man "difficult"
No! This would be too much! They are both too pessimistic. It would be sad. This realtionship will probably not work as the Dog is too realistic and will naturally criticize the Goat's indulgence and enumerate his weaknesses, thus making him more pessimistic than ever. She is reasonable and affectionate enough, but not always willing to resort to the little white lies necessary to placate his touchy feelings.. He needs a lot of compassion and support to be able to put his best side forward. She is unsympathetic and hardy and can be irked by his complaining and self-gratification. Not much congeniality here as each tends to bring out the other's negative traits.
MONKEY-wife with PIG-man "perhaps"
Why ever not? The Monkey admires the Pig.
A fairly civil union, but they may not be really fascinated by each other's real personality. The Pig is too straightforward and scrupulous for the complicated Monkey. She has more pungent tastes and the Pig will definitely be too bland. On the other hand, while the Monkey is deviously charming, her basic intricacy and pretentiousness may prove too much for him. Both are bound to be irritated and bruised by the incapacities of the other. Still, they could make a go of this match if they can figure each other out and concentrate on their positive qualities. An ancient saying: "When the Pig meets the Monkey, there are always tears". Bye, Jaap Hillen
FINGERS
You are born in 1958, in the year of the DOG. He60: RAT. He57: ROOSTER.
DOG-wife with RAT-man "perhaps".
Interesting. It could work if the Rat is not too often at home. The Dog will hover if he is. The danger in this match is that they may both do too much compromising and end up with a too bland realtionship that makes them uninterested in each other.
DOG with ROOSTER:
As friends, not living together: "difficult"
There's a barrier between them, a fence, a wall, a ditch, a world.
DOG-wife with ROOSTER-man for long time living together: "difficult".
No. The Dog is not very good at suffering fools. Her cynicism would out. In spite of their self-assurance and poise, they are also very outspoken. If the Rooster starts to nag and grumble about the Dog's frailties, she could respond by throwing harmony out the window and giving him some scalding rhetoric of her own. Both parties have sharp tongues and could hurt each other quite painfully. A workable relationship only if one of them is unselfish and sensible enough to entice the other to lay down arms.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
HOL
She is born in 1954, in the year of the HORSE. He57: ROOSTER.
On the "Character Combination Pocket Card" is metioned for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with ROOSTER-man "difficult".
No, She'd lose the man among the fine feathers! For her, love is a serious thing. A smooth marriage is not indicated as these two strong-minded individuals are easily irritade by each other. He can be provocative and undiplomatic and will castigate her for her high living and lack of steadiness. But she is too sophisticated, witty an flamboyant to settle for the simple and hard-working life he has planned. He cannot comprehend her changeable ways and she cannot abide his strict routine and obsession wih facts and figures. Bye, Jaap Hillen
Jaaphillen,
thanks for the answer. You made me think about that, maybe even have still hope for ex's comeback, but the goat worries me. Cause he is a sailor, we'll see in Oct if you were right.
Thanks for the effort
D
Hi,

me: 20 Sept 1963

Him: 06 Nov., 1950

Thanks

Gloria
GLORIACHU
You are born in 1963, in the year of the CAT. He50: TIGER.
On my "Character Combination Pocket Card" is indicated in "Life Partner" for long term living together of
CAT-wife with TIGER-man "perhaps".
It would be stretching it a bit, but they understand one another. And the female Cat knows how to hold her own with the Tiger.
The demure Cat may be attracted to the rugged and appealing Tiger man but when she takes a closer look she may be frightened by his impulsiveness and daring. He on the other hand cannot appreciate her moody and worrying nature. She is rational and opportunistic while he is led by his feelings and has little need for diplomacy and tact.. She is polite and sensitive. He is loud and spontaneous. Both will have to make a major effort to put up with each other's idiosyncrasies. Bye, Jaap Hillen
jaaphillen,

Thanks for the answer. You make me think about my husband and I....I filed the divorce end of May. He has an affair....but he told me it's over now.
Whatever, it's hurt. We really need to make all effort to put up with our idiosyncrasies.
Thanks again for your effort.

Gloria
Hi,
Would you please give me a try too?

me - Aug 13, 69 Female
H - May 19, 70 Male

1 son -Jan 23, 2001

Any thoughts our way?
Thanks!
This could be interesting.... please provide information for my H and I.

Me: June 13, 1960
My H: May 26, 1948

Thanks. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
MAMA
You are born in 1969, in the year of the ROOSTER. He70: DOG. Son01 is born before the 24th of January and belongs to 2000, the year of the DRAGON..
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
ROOSTER-wife with DOG-man "difficult"
Only if it is absolutely necessary. Let the lady organize tea parties and bridge games, and all may be well.
A cool to moderate coexistence is in store for this couple. Both are discriminating and forthright souls who may be easily
displeased with each other's faults. Normally, they may strive harder to be more agreeable, but this match could bring out their most offensive traits, making them willful and uncompromising. Both are too quick to retaliate when challenged and can be fierce fighters. The Dog is nice and easygoing only as long as you keep out of his hair. The Rooster is virtuous and equally sincere in her efforts, but she has much more too rigid a outlook to suit the Dog. She will make him feel like she is out to reform him and he will never stand for that.
In 'Parent-Child':
ROOSTER-mother with DRAGON-son "good".
But the Rooster admires her baby Dragon a little too much, and that can mean trouble.
DOG-father with DRAGON-son "difficult".
Brr! Dog and Dragon are each other's opposites. These two don't get on at all. The Dragon can not bear the criticisms which the Dog, with his clear mind, continuously aims at him. What can you do?!!!
*** Make sure that the child never has to ask whether you love him.
*** Make sure it never has to feel the need to make a good impression.
*** Cuddling!!! Listening!!! Prais!!!
+ Never say: "You are a horrible child!", but only criticize specific disobedience.
+ Even if the child is not "the apple of your eye", behave as if he is.
+ Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love gives the child a sense of security.
+ Make sure that your child is certain that you highly esteem it, till 18 year, especially till 5 year. Bye, Jaap Hillen
STILLTOGETHER
You are born in 1960, in the year of the RAT. He 1948, also in the year of the RAT.
RAT-wife with RAT-man "good"..
Two Rats love one another wih an especially tender affection. What a love affair! Like this, the rest of the world can go hang.
A bit too much togetherness. They may both be too conscientious and domesticated. When they are too alike, they could suffer from overexposure to each other's personality. Mr. Rat could be more easygoing than Mrs. Rat here, who may have an inclination to be fussy and bossy. Two worldly and calculating signs who may watch each other rather intently and not like the close-up picture they see..
There subcharacters of the month of birth do also have the same sign, Horse (gemini). They both have RAT/Horse.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Jaap hillen,
Thanks for the information.
The relationship between my H and son is one I'd already worried about.
Does your chart work with due dates? We're expecting our second child Feb 17, 2003. Any thoughts on adding him/her to the mixture?
Also, who are the rooster and dragon compatible with? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Thanks!
Mama1.5
MAMA
You: ROOSTER. He: DOG. Son: DRAGON.
Baby on the way: from the 2nd of February 2003 the year of the GOAT.
Rooster-mother with Goat-child 'difficult'.
The tolerance factor in this combination is very low. For upgrading 'difficult' into 'good' please
see my advice in my previous massage.
Dog-father with Goat-child also 'difficult'
Discouraged, the Dog may and up by washing his hands of the Goat. Please see my advice!
The Goat is the most feminine sign of the zodiac. He is righteous, sincere and easily taken in by sob stories. He is likely to be mild- mannered, even shy. At his best, he is artistic, fashionable and a creative worker. At his worst, he tends to be easily overcome by his emotions, pessimistic and withdrawn. He dislikes strict schedules and cannot take too much discipline or criticism. The Goat is a lightweight in dominance.
Occupation for the Goat: actor, artist, fashion designer, interior architect, industrial designer, potter, art critic, illustrator, animator, window-dresser, toy designer, inventor, musician.
Rooster is compatible with Ox, Dragon and Snake.
Dragon is compatible with Rat, Monkey, Rooster and Pig.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
This looks like fun, let's give it a try.

Me - 1/12/72
Him - 1/1/68
DS - 7/30/93
DD1 - 12/23/96
DD2 - 3/24/02
me too:

me 02/02/72
him 12/11/72
One more. Thanks.

Me: 10/22/71
Him: 1/13/64
US TOO

ME: 1/13/73
Her: 9/2/73

D: 8/31/95
S: 12/29/98

<small>[ August 14, 2002, 08:37 AM: Message edited by: Fighting4us ]</small>
Me too, me too please!
Me- F 12/31/59
H -M 3/6/56
D 1/2/90
S 11/15/93
TRYING2BHAPPY
You are born before 1.16.72, in the year of the PIG. He before 1.30.68 in the year of the GOAT. Son93: ROOSTER. Daughter96: RAT. Daughter02: HORSE.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
PIG-wife with GOAT-man 'good'.
As long as he doesn't go beyond all bounds, the Pig will put up with the Goat. Pig and Goat belong (with Cat) tot the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
In 'Parent-Child':
PIG with ROOSTER-child 'good'
Lucky Rooster! Th Pig will do everything to understand him and make him happy.
PIG with RAT-child 'good'
Fine, They wil have a lot of laughs together, and if the Rat does take advantage a bit, who cares?
PIG with HORSE-child 'good'
The inevitable departure from home of the Horse will upset the Pig, especially as it's always earlier than expected.
GOAT with ROOSTER-child 'difficult'
Mutal exasperation! There's no common ground here at all.
GOAT with RAT-child 'difficult'.
What on earth can be done here? (if mama is the goat the damage is less).
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'.
Yes, as long as the Goat doesn't count on the Horse too much to look after him in his declining years.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
GOODGRIEF
You are born in 1972 in the year of the RAT. He72: RAT. Daughter99: CAT. Son+Daughter02: HORSE.
RAT-wife with RAT-man 'good'
Two Rats love one another with an especially tender affection. What a love affair! Like this, the rest of the world can go hang! A bit too much togetherness. They may both be too conscientious and domesticated. When they are too alike, they could suffer from overexposure to each other's personality. Mr. Rat could be more easygoing than Mrs. Rat here, who may have an inclination to be fussy and bossy. Two worldly and calculating signs who may watch each other rather intently and not like the close-up picture they see.
In 'Parent-Child':
RAT with CAT-child 'perhaps'
RAT with HORSE-child 'difficult'.
Rat and Horse are each other's opposites. The Horse will rear up in the shafts. He'll leave home very young because Father and Mother Rat gets on his nerves so much. What can you do?!!! See the last part of my message to MAMA on August 12, 2002, 8:58 AM. !!!!!
Bye, Jaap HILLEN
DINAH
You are born in 1971, in the year of the PIG. He before 2.13.64, in the year of the CAT.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
PIG-wife with CAT-man 'very good'
Good, very good, as long as the Pig controls that love of low life! Pig and Cat belong (with Goat) to the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the light weights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
Bye, Jaap Hilen
FIGHTING
She is born in 1973, in the year of the OX. He before 2.3.73, in the year of the RAT.
In my book 'The Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
OX-wife with RAT-man 'good'
A couple of good ones. The woman wears the trousers, but she is faithful and realistic and she'll make the Rat happy. The ardently demonstrative Rat could make the Ox lady more responsive and less obstinate.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by jaaphillen:
<strong>TRYING2BHAPPY
PIG with ROOSTER-child 'good'
Lucky Rooster! Th Pig will do everything to understand him and make him happy.
PIG with RAT-child 'good'
Fine, They wil have a lot of laughs together, and if the Rat does take advantage a bit, who cares?
PIG with HORSE-child 'good'
The inevitable departure from home of the Horse will upset the Pig, especially as it's always earlier than expected.
GOAT with ROOSTER-child 'difficult'
Mutal exasperation! There's no common ground here at all.
GOAT with RAT-child 'difficult'.
What on earth can be done here? (if mama is the goat the damage is less).
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'.
Yes, as long as the Goat doesn't count on the Horse too much to look after him in his declining years.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This is scary, that describes me and the children to a T, unfortunately does with Dad too. Hopefully they can at least try and work together better.

Mine with the Horse daughter is scary, about her leaving home earlier than expected. She's not ours completely, we are raising her for a relative, waiting for the state to terminate rights. That's scary, I hope it doesn't mean she's going to leave home WAY earlier than expected.
CLOUDY
You are born in 1959, in the year of the PIG. He56: MONKEY. Daughter before 1.27.90: SNAKE. Son93: ROOSTER.
PIG-wife with MONKEY-man 'perhaps'
This could work. It's so easy to put one over on a Pig that the Monkey can't be bothered: it would give him no pleasure. Besides, he thinks a lot of the Pig.
There may be a strong attraction for each in this combination, but the trials of everyday married life could wear it away. The PIg lady is prodding, energetic and staunchly devoted to her loved ones and her goals, but she operates more on blind faith, and in this case the Monkey cannot resist the urge to take advantage of her innocent nature. She, on the other hand, benefits from his financial acumen and guile but is not impressed by his unscrupulous and opportunistic ways. He finds her overconscientious about spreading goodwill about. He could also resent her extravagant generosity at his expense. Both may need extra efforts to put up with one another's frailties. A ancien saying is: 'When the Pig meets the Monkey, there are always tears'.
In 'Parent-Child':
PIG with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Pig and Snake are each other's opposites.
This will work at the Pig's expense. A mother Pig can become a complete slave to a Snake child. The Snake is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The creative Pig is a lightweight in it. So the Snake is the boss.
PIG with ROOSTER-child 'good'
Lucky Rooster! The Pig will do everything to understand him and make him happy. Also the Rooster is a heavyweight in dominance.
Snake and Rooster belong (with Ox) to the same trio, the trio of the thinkers, of the heavyweights in dominance. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
MONKEY wit SNAKE-child 'good'
Not too bad, guile and wisdom can make perfect bedfellows.
MONKEY with ROOSTER-child 'difficult'
Mutal exasperation! There's no common ground here at all.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
HI, this is very interesting.

Me: 6/2/67
Him: 12/5/65

Thanks! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Can I get in on this?
Me - April 13, 1957
Her - March 29, 1960

Also, is there a way to tell me what sign would work best with me?
Thanks so much in advance.....
Me too

me - 3/23/1961
H - 7/26/1967

S(1) 10/26/1993
S(2) 1/28/1995
D 12/7/1998

If you don't mind.
MrsMTS
You are born in 1967, in the year of the GOAT. He65: SNAKE.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with SNAKE-man 'good'
The Goat will mend her ways if the Snake is rich enough. But what a perfomance. The lusty Snake may like to get wrapped around the object of his affections but he won't like it when the Goat clings to him indefinitely. He will feel trapped. The realistic and efficient Snake is basically an achiever. The Goat is sensitive, sentimental and docile. He will sacrifice a great deal to realize his ambitions. She is self-indulgent and may be easily discouraged when the going gets rough. He is highly intelligent and she is highly emotional. They may find it hard to bridge the gaps in their relationship in times of dificulty.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
MARRIED MAN
She is born in 1960, in the year of the RAT. He57: ROOSTER.
RAT-wife with ROOSTER-man 'difficult'
He is bossy and dogmatic and prone to giving lectures. She is balky about criticism and can be sharp and petty when offended. He lacks the sensitivity and warmth she seeks in a mate. Her resourcefulnes and competence make her unwilling to follow his orders blindly. Not a promising match for either party. They tend to agitate each other unnecessarily.
Signs for the ROOSTER-man:
'Very good': OX, DRAGON
'Good': SNAKE
'Perhaps': none
'Difficult': RAT, TIGER, HORSE, GOAT, MONKEY, DOG, PIG
'Very difficult': CAT, ROOSTER
Bye, Jaap Hillen
SUE WITH HOPE
You are born in 1961, in the year of the OX. He67: GOAT. Son93: ROOSTER. Son95: DOG. Daughter98: TIGER.
In 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
OX-wife with GOAT-man 'very dificult'.
Bad! The Ox lady will end up by showing master Goat to the door, with no regrets. The Goat is artistic and leisurely. He must savor and enjoy life as he pleases. The Ox lady is dutiful enough to keep house and take good care of her family, but she will not relish complying with his indulgent and impractical demands. He must be loved and appreciated to bring out the best in him. She expects order and discipline and will tend to be too commanding for the Goat. She is resolute and uncompromising and feels she must make optimum use of her time and energy. He is artistic and must wait for the right mood to strike him. She is impatient and scornful of his soft ways and he is thoroughly adverse to regimentation and being pushed around. Drastic changes needed for both sides to cohabit peacefully. The conservatif and authoritarian Ox is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The artistic Goat is an lightweight in dominance. The Ox is the boss.
In 'Parent-Child':
OX-mother with ROOSTER-son 'good'
Yes, the Rooster will put up with authority if he's allowed to strut. Ox and Rooster belong together (with Snake) to the same trio, the trio of the thinkers, of the heavyweights in dominance. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
OX-mother with DOG-son 'difficult'
No. They will get on each other's nerves. The Ox cannot tolerate people who stand up to her and argue.
OX-mother with TIGER-daughter 'difficult'
Impossible! The Tiger must get out as soon as possible, or the Ox mother will destroy her.
Will damage the original Tiger character.
What can you do?!!!
*** Make sure that the child never has to ask whether you love him or her.
*** Make sure it never has to feel the need to make a good impression on you.
*** Cuddling!!! Listening!!! Praise!!!
+ Never say: "You're a horrible child!", but only criticize specific disobedience.
+ Even if your child is not "the apple in your eye", behave as if he or she is.
+ Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love gives the child security.
+ Make sure that your child is certain that you highly esteem it, till 18 years , especially till 5 years.
GOAT-father with ROOSTER-son 'difficult'
Mutual exasperation! There's no common ground here at all.
GOAT-father with DOG-son 'perhaps'.
The Dog will take his distance very early, but he'll never let the Goat down.
GOAT-father with TIGER-daughter 'difficult'
There will be no peace here! The Tiger risk devouring the Goat heedlessly. Probably not if the orinal Tiger character is damage by the Ox.
Bye, Jaap Hillen


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How interesting
I have not read all of the posts here but I get the idea--our character is determined by when we are born (like astrology?). I don't buy it. This kind of stuff can be amusing, but I would never make a decision about a relationship based on something like this.
I have not read all of the posts here but I get the idea--our character is determined by when we are born (like astrology?). I don't buy it. This kind of stuff can be amusing, but I would never make a decision about a relationship based on something like this.
ONE4EVER
One is none too clever if one doesn't take advantage of it.
I can tell you after more than 15 years of research on the combination of years of birth.
Bye, Jaap Hilen
Jaap

I am more into Jungian psychology and Myers-Briggs or enneagram personality typology. I believe in personality/character types and that some types are more "compatible" than others. I am just a hard sell on believing that it has anything to do with year of birth. A lot of people were born in the years my W and I were born. I know lots of people born in my year and we are all different. The value of astrology, I Ching, your system, etc. is that they give us something to bounce off of. For example, if you say I have "horse" or "rat" qualities, I can then look at myself and see those qualities that I might not otherwise have seen. Again, this stuff can be fun, but choosing someone based on the year they were born--I will pass.
me too, please.

Me (W) 11/28/74
H 4/22/75
S 9/17/00
Please try:

H Jun2 1944
W Jun3 1955
s Feb28 1978
s Jun6 1983

OW Aug11 1960
This looks fun....

Me - 11/22/66
WH - 1/29/67
DS - 5/11/92

Thanks!
Shelle
do ours too
me 10-19-52
wife 12-29-61
also ow 08-16-49

just wanted to see how ow would have been if she hadn't dumped me
Very kind of you to do this!

May I try?

Male: Oct 30 61
Female: Feb 7 55

Thanks very much!
AMMC
She is born on 28/11/74, in the year of the TIGER. He on 22/4/75, in the year of the CAT. Son 17/9/00: DRAGON.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
TIGER-wife with CAT-man 'perhaps'
The female Tiger is a complex creature, but the Cat-man is flexible.... and a spotter. The Tiger may be too strong and colorful for the quiet and impeccable Cat. On the other hand, she finds him impersonal and lacking in emotions. He could help her solve her problems but she may be too inattentive to listen. She could build up his confidence and assertiveness but he is not too keen on her method of teaching. They tend not to mix well together as, in the final analysis, what one likes, the other shuns.
In 'Parent-Child':
TIGER with DRAGON-child 'good'
Everything in favor of this combination for bringing out the best in the child!
CAT with DRAGON-child 'good'
On one condition (that the Dragon leaves well enough alone at home and doesn't fuss), the Cat is prepared to tolerate the brilliance of his child. Bye, Jaap Hillen
SAPDON
She is born on 3/6/55, in the year of the GOAT. He 2/6/44: MONKEY. Son 28/2/78: HORSE. Son 6/6/83: PIG.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with MONKEY-man 'perhaps'
The Goat lady loves to play house but she may make too many demands on the wily Monkey. He may be flattered by her attentiveness but still finds her flaws outweighing her virtues. She, on the other hand, is no match for the calculating and evasive Monkey, who may not always take her seriously. The Goat stands to lose more in this bargain, as the Monkey, will exploit her kind and generous nature. Each is on a different wavelength in this union.
In "Parent-Child':
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'.
Yes, as long as the Goat doesn't count on the Horse too much to look after her in her declining years!
GOAT with PIG-child 'good'
Hah! Finally, it's the piglet who comes to the Goat's rescue. He loves her! Goat and Pig belong together (with Cat) to the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
MONKEY with HORSE-child 'difficult'
Hm'n ...Horse junior, although he's clever enough, mistrusts the cunning to which, perhaps, he'll fall a victim.
MONKEY-father with PIG-son 'good'
The Monkey is very fond of his piglet. He'll teach him to be less gullible.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
SHELLE
She is born on 22/11/66, in the year of the HORSE. He is born in 1967 before 9 february and belongs also to 1966, the year of the HORSE. DS 11/5/92: MONKEY.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with HORSE-man 'good'
These two tempestuous lovers will be saved by their egoism. Teamwork and cooperation are possible because they can work at similar speeds. It would be better if they were born in different seasons so as to provide more variety to their relationship. Both are passionate but independent and restless. Their witty, lively, materialistic and adventurous personalities may make life very hectic but this does not guarantee that they will get anywhere unless one of them is skillful enough to control the other . They are both bored by routine and restrictions.
In "Parent-Child':
HORSE with MONKEY-child 'good'
Nobody could care less! No problems here, then. Bye, Jaap Hillen
BELIEVER
He is born on 19/10/52, in the year of the DRAGON. She 29/12/61 in the year of the OX with subcharacter Ox. She 16/8/49: also in the year of the OX with subcharacter Monkey.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
DRAGON-man with OX-wife 'difficult'.
No. There'd be a continuous fight over who was the boss. And the Dragon would get bored. Both are dutiful but stubborn. This factor could make or break the marriage. He works for glory and recognition while she has to see the material benefits. If his ventures do not turn up hard cash, she could be harsh and unsympathetic. He is exciting and extroverted while she can be too conforming and conservative. He needs love and admiration; she can be cold and undemonstrative. A good deal of compromising needed. But if both parties try hard and succeed, they will be imensely proud of and dedicated to each other. Bye, Jaap Hillen
MERRIE
She is born on 7/2/55, in the year of the GOAT. He 30/10/61, in the year of the OX.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with OX-man 'difficult'.
The Ox cannot stand imagination and will not tolerate at any price the wearing of horns! They'd be unhappy. Goat and Ox are each other's opposites. The conservative and authoritarian Ox is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The artistic and creative Goat is a lightweight in dominance. TheOx is the boss. He accumulates and she spends.. The Ox is strong and decisive; she is week and insecure. She loves being sheltered and reassured, but Mr. Ox may not be so obliging as he expects a great deal from others and his Goat wife will become depressed when he exacts too much discipline and self-denial from her. Both may find the going rough at times. Bye, Jaap Hillen
Plese try

Me sept 25th 64
H: jan 12th 71
Son: june 17th 99

Thanks
LOSTINLP
You are born on 9/25/64, in the year of the DRAGON.
He is born in 1971 before January 27, still in the year of the DOG.
Son 6/17/99, in the year of the CAT.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
DRAGON-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
Ai-ai-ai! Dragon and Dog are each other's opposites. Clashing characters. No, the Dog is not the man to admire things blindly; he has beter things to do. Each may have the wrong chemistry for the other. Their basic dispositions are uncomplementary and they may opt to disperse their energies in different directions. Both have leadership abilities but in totally different directions. The Dog loves cooperation and may resent the Dragon's audacious, high-handed and overpowering tactics. She may find him taciturn and erratic if she pushes him too much; the Dog has a reputation for being pugnacious and acidly sharp when hurt. Neither can conform easily to the other's wishes and this could only be a love-hate relationship at its best.
In "Parent-Child":
DRAGON with CAT-son 'good'
The Dragon may be a little disappointed by the apparent lack of ambition in the Cat, but there will be no problems.
DOG with CAT-son 'very good'
They get on famously together.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
I have seen these (in chinese restaurants) How do you determine "character" from dates?

I'll play (I think H and I ARE NOT compatible)

Me F 8-19-60
He M 11-19-54
I have seen these (in chinese restaurants) How do you determine "character" from dates?

I'll play (I think H and I ARE NOT compatible)

Me F 8-19-60
He M 11-19-54
I'm interested in reading what your cards say about my relationship/children . . .

me 5-15-1955
h 11-05-1954

d 5-12-76
d 8-04-77
s 12-03-78

Thanks!
C.
K9LOVE
You are born on 8/19/60, in the year of the RAT. He 11/19/54, in the year of the HORSE.
In my book 'The Character Combination Card' is mentioned for long term living together of
RAT-wife with HORSE-man 'very difficult'
Ai-ai-ai! Rat and Horse are each other's opposites. Clashing characters. (always at a difference of 6 years). No, too many emotional problems. No good could come of it. He requires physical as well as mental freedom. She is levelheaded, industrious and affectionate. She will be content to stay in a close-knit family; he must constantly explore uncharted seas. She is resourceful and thrifty. He is adventurous, flirtatious and changeable. They will not see eye to eye on how things should be done because of the differences in their temperament. The Rat views the Horse as selfish and inconsiderate. He finds her too bossy and possessive. After careful appraisal, neither may find each other appealing enough to join forces permanently. Bye, Jaap Hillen
CORYSNANA
You are born on 5/7/81, in the year of the GOAT. He 11/5/54: HORSE.
Daughter 5/12/76: DRAGON.
Daughter 8/4/77: SNAKE.
Son 12/3/78: HORSE.
GOAT-wife with HORSE-man 'good'
They won't bore each other; there will be problems enough to keep the Horse in love, and the Goat will enjoy the security. She is delicate, sensitive and kind-hearted. He is cheerful and partical enough to inject humor and purpose into her life. He can be easygoing with the gentle Goat, who is compassionate enough to overlook his selfishness if he can liven up her moods and teach her the quickest route around her magnified problems. He will be grateful for a pleasant and warm home and will find the Goat concerned enough about him to adjust her way of life to his inherent needs. Each will complement the other and this could be a very happy marriage indeed.
In 'Parent-Child":
GOAT with DRAGON-child 'good'
A lovely picture. Mother Goat and Dragon son is perfect.
GOAT with SNAKE-child 'good'
The Goat allows herself, willingly, to be monopolized by her child, on condition that she reciprocates
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'
Yes, as long as the Goat doesn't count on the Horse too much to look after her in her declining years.
HORSE with DRAGON-child 'good'
Whatever happens, all will be well.Each will live his own life.
HORSE with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge her fahter severely, and put him in the wrong in case of conflict.
HORSE with HORSE-child 'good'
They understand each other so well that it could mean trouble: each counts on the other too much, perhaps.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
o.k. - me 8/15/1957
husband 7/08/1958
thanks
My God! You couldn't have hit on our personalities and "problems" any better!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

He is selfish!!!! Flirtatious!!!!!!!!Ever changing!!!!!!!! and constantly needs EXCITEMENT!!I hate it. The profile fit for me also

22 years later and she says "Oh, now I see- <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
His A blew any and all compassion for his "character" right out of the water for me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Thanks a mil- Can others give feedback on how close they fit the "profiles"
This will be interesting

Me: 12/2/56

H 4/4/59
Thank you for doing this
Me (female) 10/10/53
Him (WS) 5/2/52
If we're not wearing you out too much, could you do:

female 12/29/67
male 12/20/62
D 3/23/87
S 8/14/88
S 3/14/90
S 12/25/92

Thank you! Mere
If you would Please

Me Female 01/06/64
XH male 01/26/64

Significant other male 08/16/68
If you are not on the floor from all this work:

Me, F 11-15-58
H, M 2-21-58

son 4-16-83
son 4-16-83
son 11-12-87

Thanks!
Sorry, I don't buy into this. Nobody can make me believe the year I was born has a darn thing to do with whether or not I am compatable with another.

Besides, I am a Christian, which leaves no room for astrology, or gypsy crystal ball type fortune tellers.

Sorry, not intended as a flame. Just sort of bugs me is all.

jd
I have to say that I'm not into the astrology thing either but here goes:

Me-8/29/1963
Wife 10/18/1961
Son 4/23/1991
Son 7/29/1992

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JH:

Wow! I just came across this thread. How did I miss it?

If you still have an iota of energy left, may I trouble you to advise me of your readings? I'm interested in learning what your cards say about my relationship/children . . .

me (m) Feb 17, 1952
w (f) Mar 08, 1957

d Jun 11, 1982
s Nov 16, 1983
d Nov 24, 1986

Thanks so much!

LI
ok here goes

me 4/23/57
him 8/15/57

thanks
Why Not

Me Female 6/10/70
WH Male 2/27/71
Wow ... this is really interesting. Here goes:

Me - born 4/14/58
Him - born 7/26/58
JDMac1- Hey I too do not believe in the idea of the year born making one compatible

BUT!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is totally amazing at how TRUE her readings were. AND they were not good for my part. BUT she hit our personalities right on the nail- no generalities- no- could belong to anyone- it was right on the nail-

So, believe or not- why do the results ring true?

PS- I hate to ask (You've got a ton ahead of me- but I am very curious as to our children)

Me 8-19-60 F
Him 11-19-54
D 3-27-83
S- 11-27-85

You have done my H and myself. Gotta start looking for a new one of those <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> - how about the kids
thanks!

<small>[ September 20, 2002, 11:29 PM: Message edited by: going_crazy ]</small>
Here's us:

Joseph--20 Dec 1963

Mary--2 March 1967

Since we have lived in oriental countries for the last decade or so, this type of astrology is a big deal--over here, this is how brides and grooms are matched and children are named. It's worth knowing about.

Incidentally, I am a Christian as well, and I think this astrology stuff is cute; my husband is an atheist and he can't stand it.
KELLIDIANA
You are born on 8/15/75, in the year of the CAT. He 7/8/58, in the year of the DOG.
CAT-wife with DOG-man 'good'
Yes, if a little mad. The female Cat will bring the Dog peace and quiet, a little serenity, some good advice, a home. A good and lasting match. The Cat is imaginative, charming and diplomatic. The Dog is straightforward but agreeable in manner. Both enjoy honest fun and entertainment, but will prefer activities that have useful purposes. They have innatele cooperative spirits and will allow each other a fair degree of independence and assertiveness. She has a strong need for comfort and luxury, while he is less materialistic and more understanding. Both will have little difficulty in putting up with each other's peculiarities. A union that should bring out the best in each of the partners.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
KALGRL
You are born on 12/2/56, in the year of the MONKEY. He 4/4/59, in the year of the PIG.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
MONKEY-wife with PIG-man 'perhaps'.
Why ever not? The Monkey admires the Pig. A fairly civil union, but they may not be really fascinated by each other's real personality. The Pig is too straightforward and scrupulous
for the complicated Monkey. She has more pungent tastes and the Pig will definitely be too bland. On the other hand, while the Monkey is deviously charming, her basic intricacy and pretentiousness may prove too much for him. Both are bound to be irritated and bruised by the incapacities of the other. Still, they could make a go of this match if they can figure each other out and concentrate on their positive qualities. Bye, Jaap Hillen
4AREASON
You are born on 10/10/53, in the year of the SNAKE. He 5/2/52, in the year of the DRAGON
For long time living together:
SNAKE-wife with DRAGON-man 'good'
A good match. The Dragon will be proud of the charm of his lady, even if it is not always directed at him. A fulfilling and stimulating relationship if these two diverse personalities can adjust to each other. He is active, impulsive and domineering. She is sensual, unhurried and a lover of ease. As he is always geared to work and succes, she can impart to him of her tenacity and common sense. She may have a finer business acumen than he or will at least handle the family finances well. If jealousy does not get in the way, they can both build a sound foundation for their home.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
MERENTHA
You are born on 12/29/67, in the year of the GOAT. He 12/20/62: TIGER. D3/23/87: CAT.
S 8/14/88: DRAGON. S 3/14/90: HORSE.
S 12/25/92: MONKEY.
In 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with TIGER-man 'difficult'
Bad. In a moment of anger, the Tiger could finish the Goat. He is outgoing, involved and vivacious. She is domesticated, sensitive and clinging. He will be companionable but cannot devote himself exclusively to her needs and finds her too dependent and indecisive. She is basically understanding but could wallow in self-pity if she finds him curt, impatient and unconcerned about her trivial complaints. Each will have to adjust to the other's ways before they can make this marriage work.
In 'Parent-Child':
GOAT with CAT-child 'good'
Yes, apart from the fact that the kitten cannot rely on the Goat. Goat and Cat belong together (with Pig) to the same trio, the trio of the artistics, of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
GOAT with DRAGON-child 'good'
A lovely picture. Mother Goat with son Dragon is perfect!
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'
Yes, as long as the Goat does not count on the Horse too much to look after her in her declining years!
GOAT with MONKEY-child 'perhaps'
Bizarre! Parents like this could amuse the Monkey.
TIGER with CAT-child 'perhaps'
The obedient-seeming Cat will in reality be sticking up two fingers!
TIGER with DRAGON-child 'good'
Everything in favor of this combination for bringing out the best in the child!
TIGER with HORSE-child 'good'
Sparks fly between these two headstrong types, but there is plenty of love and respect as well. Tiger and Horse belong together (with Dog) to the same trio, the trio of the doers. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
TIGER with MONKEY-child 'difficult'
The Tiger will often be made fun of, but the Monkey had better watch out that it doesn't go too far! Bye, Jaap Hillen
HOPELESSINAZ
You are both born in 1964 before Febrary 13, so both still in the year of the CAT.
CAT-wife with CAT-man 'good'
Will cohabitate peacefully and quietly. Both are calm and intelligent enough to do whatever is practical and necessary. However, they can only grafity each other to a point, as they tend to perform what is essential and not much more. This is because the Cat is basically not selfless and serving. Matrimony for them will have to be a well-thought-out affair with equal sharin of responsibilities. There will be some snags when either one starts to think he is bearing a little more of the weight than he should. They are both gifted and intuitive but may neglect to encourage each other.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
LADYSING58
You are born on 11/15/58, in the year of the DOG. He 2/21/58, also in the year of the DOG. Son 4/16/83: PIG. Son 11/12/87: CAT.
In 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
DOG-wife with DOG -man 'good'
Yes ........ but they are too cool together, both are big spenders and they would have mony troubles. They are reasonably compatible. Both have the same warm and stable nature although the female of the species may be the more outspoken and critical of the pair. An idealistic and conscientious couple who will seek and value each other's opinions. Dogs are fairly conforming in marital relationships and will perform well when they desire harmony. No large problems in this union if they will consult and respect each other. They should always make joint decisions as neither can tolerate being left out.
In "Parent-Child':
DOG with PIG-child 'good'.
Yes, although the cruder side of the Pig puts the Dog's back up.
DOG with CAT-child 'very good'
They get on famously together.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Jaaphillen,
When you did mine you did 8/15/75 and it is 1957
with 7/8/58
does that make a difference?

Thanks
Jaap Hillen,
Thank you for taking the time to do this. Your assesment was very good for H and me and right on with the kids. Interesting indeed!
This must keep you busy!

i would like to have a go too.

Me: female 13 Feb 1965
Him: male 8 Aug 1964

OD: 30 Jul 1997
Twin boys 14 Aug 2000

Love to hear the results.
This sounds like fun, do me too

Me-Female 4/17/60
He-Male 12/27/47
KELLIDIANA
I'm so very sorry. Je demande excuse. Entschuldigung. Het spijt me heel erg.
You are right , I made a mistake.
You 8/15/57: ROOSTER. He 7/8/58: DOG.
ROOSTER-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
Only if it is absolutely necessery. A cool to moderate coexistence is in store for this couple. Both are discriminating and forthright souls who may be easily displeased with each other's faults. Normally, they may strive harder to be more agreeable, but this match could bring out their most offensive traits, making them willful and uncompromising. Both are too quick to retaliate when challenged and can be fierce fighters. The Dog is nice and easygoing only as long as you keep out of his hair. The Rooster is virtuous and equally sincere in her efforts, but she has much too rigid an outlook to suit the Dog. She will make him feel like she is out to reform him and he will never stand for that.
Kellidiana, I hope you are not longer angry with me. Bye, Jaap Hillen
BISCAYNE
You are born on 10/18/61, in the year of the OX. He 8/29/63, in the year of the CAT.
Son 4/23/91: GOAT. Son 7/29/92: MONKEY
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
OX-wife with CAT-man 'good'.
Yes .... Perhaps. Why not? The Cat man can laugh at himself being ordered about.
The conservative, authoritarian Ox is a heavyweight in dominance. The creative Cat is a lightweight in it. The Ox is the boss in the house. The Cat is gentle, sagacious, receptive to ideas and the feelings of others. The Ox wife may be lacking the emotion and sensitivity to understand his refined personality. He can be acquisitive, indulgent and selfish. She can be pragmatic, but virtuous and well-disciplined. Both could supply each other with missing attributes if they sincerely care enough to cooperate.
In 'Parent-Child':
OX with GOAT-child 'very difficult'
A hundred times no! Discontented Ox plus unhappy Goat equals a mess! The artistic and creative Goat is a lightweight in dominance.
Make sure that your child never has to ask whether you love him. Make sure he never has to feel the need to make a good impression on you. Cuddling, Listening, Praise.
Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love will bring the child security. Make sure that he is absolutely certain that you highly esteem him, till 18 years, especially till 5 years.
OX with MONKEY-child 'good'
Yes, the Ox allows herself to be twisted around the Monkey's finger.
CAT with GOAT-child 'good'
Good for the Goat! The Cat helps, understands, and admires. Cat and Goat belong together (with Pig) to the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
CAT with MONKEY-child 'good'
Baby Monk knows who to talk to now. (It's dificult to deceive a Cat)
Bye, Jaap Hillen
LI
She is born on 3/8/57, in the year of the ROOSTER. He 2/17/52, in the year of the DRAGON. D 6/11/82: DOG. S 11/16/83: PIG.
D 11/24/86: TIGER.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
ROOSTER-wife with DRAGON-man 'good'
The Rooster profits from the Dragon's success, which become hers!
Could achieve a great deal of togetherness but will have to smooth out some rough edges first. Her discriminating and at times callous remarks could often deflate his super ego. He is dynamic and full of energy while she is efficient, economical and critical. Both will be happier if they agree on what areas each should control. Mentally they are on equal intellectual levels but they should not try to overpower each other with their accomplishments
In 'Parent-Child':
ROOSTER with DOG-child 'difficult'.
The Rooster won't know where she is. A dialogue of deaf men!
ROOSTER with PIG-child 'difficult'
The pig is patient, but he will act according to his lights. And don't let the Rooster think he is leading her by the snout!
ROOSTER with TIGER-child 'difficult'
The Rooster will be systematically opposed.
DRAGON with DOG-child 'difficult"
Ai-ai-ai. Dragon and Dog are each other's opposites. Clashing characters. No, The Dog does not have for the Dragon the admiration that the latter considers to be her due.
DRAGON with PIG-child 'good'
Yes, The Dragon can be useful to the Pig, doing everything in its power to assure Master P's success.
DRAGON with TIGER-child 'good'
The Dragon enjoys a bit of prestige in the world of the Tiger, so the Tiger will listen to him. Bye, Jaap Hillen
ELLYN
You are born on 4/23/57, in the year of the ROOSTER. He 18/5/57, also in the year of the ROOSTER.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
ROOSTER-wife with ROOSTER-man 'difficult'
Life would be impossible! Scenes and tantrums guaranteed all the time. They are both peevish and often obsessed wth their own views and will not pay much heed to the opinion of the other. However, these two are also duty-oriented and have conscientious and responsible natures. Who knows, the may be able to relinquish some of their demanding ways to achieve common goals. Then again, both are argumentative and opinionated and they may be endless discussions before they signs the Peace Treaty or agree to call a truce.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
AJR
You are born on 6/10/70, in the year of the DOG. He 2/27/71, in the year of the PIG.
DOG wife with PIG-man 'good'
Great. Love based om mutual understanding and esteem. The Dog could be aggressive and will not withhold her criticism if the Pig is too self-indulgent or lax in his duties. She is not as passionate as he, and may lack understanding of his large appetites and sensuality. Still, they could find common grounds for cooperation as the Dog has more insight than the Pig and will be loyal to him. Likewise, the Pig is tolerant and generous enough to forgive the Dog's peculiarities and see her as the trustworthy and noble ally she is. Bye, Jaap Hillen
RILEY
You are born on 4/14/58, in the year of the DOG. He 7/26/58, also in the year oif the Dog.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
DOG-wife with DOG-man 'good'.
Yes, but the are too cool together, and they'd have money troubles. Both are big spenders. Both have the same warm and stable nature although the female of the species may be the more outspoken and critical of the pair. An idealistic and conscientious couple who will seek and value each other's opninions. Dogs are fairly conforming in marital relationships and will perform well when they desire harmony. No large problems in this union if they will consult and respect each other. They should always make joint decisions as neither can tolerate being left out. Bye, Jaap Hillen
K9LOVE
You RAT. He HORSE. Daughter 3/27/83, in the year of the PIG. Son 11/27/85, in the year of the OX.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated in 'Parent-Child':
RAT with PIG-child 'good'
They could be accomplices. And the Rat's aggression falls a bit flat.
RAT with OX-child 'good'.
Okay. Whatever the Rat says, the Ox will lend an ear.
HORSE with PIG-child 'perhaps'
Not the best. The piglet finds it hard to bear the egoism of the Horse, and the Horse understands nothing. But neither loses any sleep over it.
HORSE with OX-child 'difficult'
No! When papa Horse insist on having his way, baby Ox never forgives him. He does not understand. Bye, Jaap Hillen
GOINGCRAZY
You are born on 4/13/73, in the year of the OX. He is born in 1971 before January 27, in the year of the DOG.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
OX-wife woith DOG-man 'perhaps'.
Difficult, but possible. As long as the Ox lady contents herself with running a home. Their dificulties could arise from the Ox's overbearing attitude and rigid opinions. The Dog prefers free speech and equality and may not humor the narrow -minded Ox for too long. The Ox, om the other hand, may resent the Dog's overdirect and outspoken ways; she can nurse grievances for a long time. They both shun pettiness and injustice, but are sometimes guilty of these faults themselves. A relationship that needs a lot of understanding and compromise.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
BERNZINE
You are born on 3/2/67. in the year oif the GOAT. He on 12/20/63, in the year of the CAT. On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with CAT-man 'good'.
God. The Cat likes the Goat's flights of fancy. They share an artistic approach that brings them together. Goat and Cat belong together (with Pig) to the same trio, the trio of the artistics, the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties. Goat and Cat are first choice for each other. Each is receptive to the vibrations of the other partner. The Cat appreciates her compassionate and sensitive ways and she finds him kind, astute and sagacious enough to make their decisions. Her dependence could make him feel more important and purposeful. He is a good listener and she needs sympathy and advice more than action. Both are romantic and affectionate and will enjoy domestic bliss. Bye, Jaap Hillen
2BHAPPY
You are born on 2/13/65, in the year of the SNAKE. He on 8/8/64, in the year of the DRAGON. D 7/30/97: OX.
S 8/14/2000: DRAGON.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
SNAKE-wife with DRAGON-man 'good'
A good match. The Dragon will be proud of the charm of his lady, even if it is not always directed at him. A fulfilling and stimulating realtionship if these two diverse personalities can adjust to each other. He is active, impulsive and domineering. She is sensual, unhurried and a lover of ease. As he is always geared to work and success, she can impart to him some of her fenacity and common sense. She may have a finer business acumen than he or will at least handle the family finances well. If jealousy does not come in between, they can both build a sound foundation for their home.
In "Parent-Child':
SNAKE with OX-child 'good'
Wisely, the Snake does all she can. But it is a hard life! Snake and OX belong together (with Rooster) to the same trio, the trio of the thinkers, of the heavyweights in dominance. With both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
SNAKE with DRAGON-child 'good'
Yes, The Snake understands the Dragon.
DRAGON with OX-child 'difficult'
The Ox does its best to satisfy the Dragon, but it is difficult. The Dragon likes a bit of a show, and the Ox, let's face it, is an introvert and a bit of a dull dog!
DRAGON with DRAGON-child 'very good'
Each will be proud of the other!
Bye, Jaap Hillen
WISHUPONAFALLING
You are born on 4/17/60, in the year of the RAT. He on 12/27/47, in the year of the PIG.
On my 'Characte Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
RAT-wife with PIG-man 'good'.
They will make it if the Rat controls her aggression. The Pig is not a fan of that kind of force. There is a good measure of attraction between these two and they will strive to have a companionable and peaceful relationship. Both are outgoing, sociable and energetic and will probably center their life around their home, their friends and their mutual interests, which will include a good deal of entertaining. This couple will be drawn to active pursuits and have definite ideas about their involvements. She could be the more sensitive and prudent of the two, while he is positive but too conciliatory at times for his own good. He may have need of her counsel. Bye. Jaap Hillen
Dear JP:

Thank you soooo much for taking the time to do the "character match" analysis. I'll have to study it.

Regards
I have to say this "Wow"

Kind of scary- Horse- husband cannot live peacefully with anyone in my household- Hmmmmm

Truth- absolutely- he is the most difficult of the members of this family for ALL of us to get along with.

Maybe I should put him out to pasture <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks for your time- you're a doll!!! (Sorry if you are of the male species- then you are a jewel)
Thank you so much!

How surprisingly accurate!

But what did you mean by "trio?" Could that mean our son? He was born 22 Mar 1995.

Thanks again!
K9love
A very good idea. Let the Horse pasture, than you don't have to cut the grass anymore.
I love it that you call me jewel. Thanks. Bye, Jaap
BERNZINI
About the trio's.
The 12 main characters are devided in 4 threesomes, trio's.
1) RAT, DRAGON, MONKEY
2) OX, SNAKE, ROOSTER
3) TIGER, HORSE, DOG.
and your trio
4) CAT, GOAT, PIG.
Good enough? Bye, Jaap
Hey everyone; just checking in because I was intriqued by this one...

me - male - May 2, 1962
Her - female - Jan 8, 1954 (No this is not a typo)

Look forward to hearing back.
Fred
sounds fun:

me Jan 22/63
him Feb 10/59
FREDDYB
She is born in 1954 before February 3, still in the year of the SNAKE. He 2/5/62, in the year of the TIGER.
In my little book 'The Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
SNAKE-wife with TIGER-man 'difficult'
Not advised at all. Complete misunderstanding wihout hope of redemption. Wisdom and enthusiasm make bad bedfellows. Each will question the other's motives and only notice the negative traits. The wise and practical Snake will find the Tiger husband directly opposed to her sensible course of action. He finds her jealous, overpossessive and too philosophical. She cannot comprehend his love for courting disaster. They cannot accomplish very much together.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
EBAB
She is born in 1963 before January 25, so still in the year of the TIGER.
He 10/2/59, in the year of the PIG.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
TIGER-wife with PIG-man 'good'
Why not? Just as long as the Tiger, without knowing it, does not take advantage of the Pig's good nature. They have a strong desire to please the other. Both are affectionate, dynamic and progressive in their basic attitude and will complement each other. He is kind and understanding enough to cope with the unpredictable and exciting moods of the Tiger, while she finds him devoted, courageous and unselfish. The Tiger is usually repentant for her outbursts when she meets no opposition, and the Pig's good humor and compassionate ways will bring out the best in her and make her more compliant to his wishes. Bye, Jaap Hillen
that is amazing! It seems so true. thanks!
Anything for a smile!

Me 1966
Wife 1968

Thanks for all your hard work in doing this.
WORTHIT
If she is born in 1968 after January 29: MONKEY
If he is born in 1966 after January 21: HORSE.
MONKEY-wife with HORSE-man 'perhaps'
Not advised They will never understand each other. Both are adaptable and intelligent enough to leap over obstacles barring their progress. But their very similarities may breed mutual contempt. Because, just as he is practical and opportunistic, she can be equally unscrupulous. She is versatile and adroit and he may irritate her by his shrewd and mercurial movements. The Monkey is bright and beguiling while the Horse is equally witty and persuasive. They may end up trying to con each other into submission.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
ok,I'm in-
H-12/18/57
me-11/13/63
my kids
s-9/20/83
s-5/4/85
Thanks!!
SATXPOOH
You are born on 11/13/63, in the year of the CAT. He 12/18/57: ROOSTER.
Son 9/20/83: PIG. Son 5/4/85: OX.
In my book 'The Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
CAT-wife with ROOSTER-man 'difficult'
Ai-ai-ai! Cat and Rooster are each other's opposites (always at a difference of 6 years). Clashing characters.
Not at any price. Even if they are not important, the Cat will be exasperated by the Rooster's excesses. They are unlikely to ever find their ideal love in each other. Their personalities may clash strongly because both are vexed by each other's negative traits. He is outspoken, exacting and overzealous in his cutting criticism. She is an artistic and reticent intellectual who may be a bit self-indulgent and unwilling to work hard. When the industrious and ruthlessly efficient Rooster gets through with her, she may feel like a victim of the Inquisition. Needless to say, the Cat will be defiant and uncommunicative. The Rooster's lack of tact and indelicate ways are not intentional, but he cannot avoid hurting the Cat, who thrives on sympathy and consideration.
In 'Parent-Child':
CAT-parent with PIG-child 'good'
But the sentimental Pig could suffer from the Cat's indifference. Cat and Pig belong (with Goat) to the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
CAT-parent with OX-child 'perhaps'
The Cat regards this strange child with astonishment and anxiety. In fact the Cat can't stop teasing the child.
ROOSTER-parent with PIG-child 'difficult'
The Pig is patient, but he'll act according to his lights. And don't let the Rooster think he's leading him by the snout!
ROOSTER-parent with OX-child 'good'
Yes. Despite an occasional peck at random, the Rooster will allow himself to be led up the garden path. Rooster and Ox belong (with Snake) to the same trio, the trio of the thinkers, of the heavyweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Oh my!! Thank you -this is EXACTLY how life is at our house. WE have our work cut out for us!
thanks again,
Pattie <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
please please please jaap help me out too
mine (F) 31/1/57
his (M) 07/04/58
THANKS
ABSURD
You are born on 31/1 in 1957 on New Year's day, in the year of the ROOSTER. (one day earlier in the year of the monkey).
He 7/4/58, in the year of the DOG.
For long term living together of
ROOSTER-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
A cool to moderate coexistence is in store for this couple. Both are discriminating and forthright souls who may be easily displeased with each other's faults. Normally, they may strive harder to be more agreable, but this match could bring out their most offensive traits, making them willful and uncompromising. Both are too quick to retaliate when challenged and can be fierce fighters. The Dog is nice and easygoing only as long as you keep out of his hair. The Rooster is virtuous and equally sincere in her efforts, but she has much too rigid an outlook to suit the Dog. She will make him feel like she is out to reform him and he will never stand for that.
(monkey-wife with dog-man 'perhaps'. may be, with reservations; they are both cynical and without illusions). Bye, Jaap Hillen
how about me too

me F 9/07/57
husband 2/10/57
son 11/09/95

thanks
this is cool
CQ
Me:(Female)10/23/71
Husband: 10/31/71
Daughter: 1/9/95

Thanks for your help.
CQ
You are born on 9/7/57, in the year of the ROOSTER. He too ROOSTER.
Son 11/9/95, in the year of the PIG
ROOSTER-wife with ROOSTER-man 'difficult'
Life would be impossible! Scenes and tantrums guaranteed all the time. Both are virtuous personalities but this match could provoke an unhealthy 'holier than thou' attitude between these contenders. They are both peevish and often obsessed with their own views and will not pay much heed to the opinions of the other. However, these two are also duty-oriented and have conscientious and responsible natures. Who knows, they may be able to relinquish some of their demanding ways to achieve common goals. Then again, both are argumentative and opinionated, and there may be endless discussions before they sign the Peace Treaty or agree to call a truce.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
ROOSTER-parent with PIG-child 'difficult'
The Pig is patient, but he'll act according to his lights. And don't let the Rooster think he's leading him by the snout!
Make sure that your child never has to ask whether you love him.
Make sure that he never has to feel the need to make a good impression.
CUDDLING!!! LISTENING!!! PRAISE!!!
Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love will bring the child a sense of security.
Do not reproach your child, but express your wishes.
Make sure that your child is certain that you highly esteem it till 18 years, especially till 5 years. Bye, Jaap Hillen
LOVINGROSE
You are born on 10/23/71, in the year of the PIG. He 10/31/71, in the year of the PIG too.
Daughter is born in 1995 before January 31, still in the year of the Dog.
For long term living together is indicated in 'Life Partner' for.
PIG-wife with PIG-man 'good'
A good match. They'll both make concessions, and they'll get on famously. Being born under the same sign, both will be strong, courageous and modest, but they may lack direction and tenacity and may not able to strengthen each other's weak points. Sincerity and goodwill without resolute and systematic organization could wreak havoc for two such well-meaning people. One of them will have to be unemotional and disciplined enough to face reality and adversity, otherwise their mutual love and loyalty will not be much protection for them.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated for
PIG-parent with DOG-child 'good'
They get on well. The Pig will always back up the Dog in her Causes, but the Pig will make himself unhappy quite often.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Me (wife): 03/27/66
Husband: 12/24/52
Son: 01/02/02

Thanks!
HI! Would you mind doing mine?

Me: 8/4/1963
Hubby: 9/13/1965
Please add mine to the request list....

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NOPLACELH
She is born on 27/3/66, in the year of the HORSE.
He on 12/24/52, in the year of the DRAGON. Son is born in 2002 before February 12, still in the year of the SNAKE.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with DRAGON-man 'perhaps'
All systems go! Provided it lasts, of course.
The serious Dragon may find her restless and not too crazy about a steady diet of housework. Life will be more fruitful and delightful for both if they live in the city and Mrs. Horse keeps a job as well as manages her home. Actually, both parties perform better when given variety and freedom. The constantly aspiring Dragon will find his wife's practicality very profitable, while she finds him strong and reliable.
In 'Parent-Child':
HORSE-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge his mother severely, and put her in the wrong in case of conflict.
DRAGON-parent with SNAKE-child 'good'
Yes. The Snake is wise to the Dragon and understands him, even though he's not going to be taken in himself.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
ANGELIA
She is born on 8/4/63, in the year of the CAT. He 9/13/65, in the year of the SNAKE.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated for long term living together of
CAT-wife with SNAKE-man 'good'
Uh uh ... perhaps yes ... as long as it is in slippers (the bitter end for a Snake) and by the fireside. The Snake is forceful and dominant and the well-bred Cat will be receptive to his way of thinking. Both share the same exclusive and refined preferences and these two can strike a harmonious chord mentally and romantically. However, these signs are also basically not so obliging. They may neglect each other in their search for self- expression and gratification of their desires. However, the Cat is not as possessive as the Snake and will not mind very much if he gets wrapped up in his work or cannot pay her too much attention. She will be content so long as he provides her with a lovely home and pays all the bills. A relatively peaceful combination.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
PROUDPAPA
She is born on 10/20/70, in the year of the DOG. He on 8/13/67, in the year of the GOAT.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated for long term living together of
DOG-wife with GOAT-man 'difficult'
No! This would be too much! They are both too pessimistic. It would be sad. This relationship will not work as the Dog is too realistic and will naturally criticize the Goat's indulgence and enumerate his weaknesses, thus making him more pessimistic than ever. She is reasonable and affectionate enough, but not always willing to resort to the little white lies necessary to placate his touchy feelings. He needs a lot of compassion and support to be able to put up his best side forward. She is unsympathetic and hardy and can be irked by his complaining and self-gratification. Not much congeniality here as each tends to bring out the other's negative traits.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Well darn, the challenge gets greater. Time to step up and overcome what must be overcome. Any chance it touches the aspects of the elements.

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Please, please do mine, I love this. Me 09/19/71 Him 11/29/66 and son 7/02/01
Thank you, you are so sweet for doing this.
LWFC
You are born on 9/19/71, in the year of the PIG.
He on 11/29/66, in the year of the HORSE.
Son 7/2/2001: SNAKE.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated for long term living together of
PIG-wife with HORSE-man 'difficult'
The Horse, egoist that he is, takes advantage of the Pig. She'll be unhappy. She is a devoted soul and craves for more togetherness and affection than the self-centered Horse can provide. He is not amused when she is too conforming, and considerate enough to please everyone else besides him. Both may have some difficulty coming to terms with each other's weaknesses.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
PIG-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Ai-ai-ai. Snake and Pig are each other's opposties. The Snake is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The creative Pig is a lightweight in it. The Snake is the boss. This will work , at the Pig's expense. A mother Pig can become a complete slave to a Snake child.
HORSE-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge his father severely, and put him in the wrong in case of conflict.
Make sure that your child never has to ask whether you love him.
Make sure it never has to feel the need to make a good impression.
Cudddling!!! Listening!!! Praise!!!
Do not reproach him, but express your wishes.
Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love gives the child a sense of security.
Make sure that your child is certain that you highly esteem him, till 18 years, especially till 5 years. Bye, Jaap Hillen
Hi,

Can you do mine?

Mine: 8/14/1976 Male
Hers: 5/24/1974 Female
INDY_357
She is born on 5/24/74, in the year of the TIGER. He 8/14/76, in the year of the DRAGON
For long term living together of
TIGER-wife with DRAGON-man 'perhaps'
Not a quiet, conventional and uneventful marriage at all. They could provide each other stimulating company if they understand their basic individual need for freedom and expression. The Tiger wife may respect and adore her Dragon spouse but will never give up her own identity. He will be in trouble if he tries to give her obedience training. Both are quick-tempered and will resist being dominated. An adventurous marriage if they can maintain a workable balance.
Yes, and never mind the difficulties. The Dragon knows how to reason with the Tiger, who will listen to his advice, even when it is bad. Bye, Jaap Hillen
Thank you Jaap, the "opposites" in regard to my child really concerns me, as well as the sentence about Mother Pig becoming a slave to The Snake. Somewhere else I read about the realtionship between Snake and Pig and it said that Snakes hate Pigs. Could that be possible? Any other recommendations as far as child rearing goes in those prediciments? I love my little boy so much but I definatly do not look forward to him dominating me or hating me. He is only 15 months but I can see that he is a willfull child, but he is also affectinate with me and playfull.
If you are still doing this:

Me: 4-29-52
H: 6-26-52
S1: 4-17-76
S2 11-28-77
s3 March 6, 1980

Thanks,
Prof429
BB
She is born on 4/15/64, in the year of the DRAGON. He on 3/2/58, in the year of the DOG.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated for long term living together of
DRAGON-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
Ai-ai-ai, Dragon and Dog are each other's opposites (always at a difference of 6 years).
Clashing characters.The Dog does not have for the Dragon the admiration that the latter considers to be his due. Each may have the wrong chemistry for the other. Their basic dispositions are uncomplementary and they may opt to disperse their energies in different directions. Both have leadership abilities but in totally different directions. The Dog loves cooperation and may resent the Dragon's audacious, high-handed and overpowering tactics. She may find him taciturn and erratic if she pushes him to much; the Dog has a reputation for being pugnacious and acidly sharp when hurt. Neither can conform easily to the other's wishes and this could only be a love-hate relationship at its best.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
LWFC
Pig-parents and Snake-childern will never, never hate each other if you respect my hints mentioned at the end of my previous message. The reverse is true.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
PROF429
She is born on 4/29/52, in the year of the DRAGON/Snake. He on 6/26/52, also in the year of the DRAGON/Goat.
Son 4/17/76: DRAGON/Dragon.
Son 11/28/77: SNAKE.
Son 3/6/80: MONKEY.
For long term living together of
DRAGON-wife with DRAGON-man 'difficult'
A real firework display! They'll be perpetually in competition. Not a very peaceful arrangement unless they first agree on their goals. Both are individualistic, strong-willed and aggressive. Mrs. Dragon will not like to be overshadowed; in fact, she may be more assertive than he. Mr. Dragon is masterful and expects to have control, but in this case he may have to surrender some of his rights. Both partners will be wise to maintain their own careers to avoid suppressing each other.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
DRAGON-parent with DRAGON-child
'very good'.!!! Each will be proud of the other.
DRAGON-parent with SNAKE-child 'good'
Yes. The Snake is wise to the Dragon and understands him, even though he is not going to be taken in himself.
DRAGON-parent with MONKEY-child 'good'
Good relationship. The Dragon brings to the Monkey its wisdom and experience if the Monkey needs any. Dragon and Monkey belong together (with Rat) to the same trio, the trio of the initiators; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Hey can I get on this too????

We met 1993
We married 1999
My birthday 9-17-1977(wife)
His Birthday 3-31-78
Our sons b-day 5-28-01

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> this will be interesting
MARY
You are born on 9/17/77, in the year of the SNAKE.
He on 3/31/78, in the year of the HORSE.
Son on 5/28/01, in the year of the SNAKE.
For long term living together of
SNAKE-wife with HORSE-man 'perhaps'
If it makes the Snake lady happy, and if she has enough wisdom to allow her to put up with such an existence. An unlikely match. Both are mentally agile and realistic. But while he is mercurial and needs freedom and variety, she can be resistant to change and resentful of his rash and self-centered ways. She may be too determined, private and refined for his strong preferences, and in turn the Snake woman may not find the Horse appetites persistent enough to be worth her while. They both have to be very unselfish to make this marriage work.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
SNAKE-parent with SNAKE-child 'difficult'.
Which one ensnares the other? Better for the young Snake not to stay too long at home..
HORSE-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge his father severely, and put him in the wrong in case of conflict.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Hallo Jaaphillen
thanks for your not so good response(dog and
rooster - difficult difficult difficult
I salute to that. So it is.
I would like to know my son (twins)
birthday 31/7/1981
thanks a lot. -
ROOSTER
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> You are so on target!!!! Whats the best match for a snake? Just so I know down the road <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Thank you I printed that one out.

Mary
Hallo Jaaphillen
I have done a reply not sure if I have pushed the
right buttons but here goes again. Thanks for your
reply (dog and rooster) difficult!!! I salute
to that it is in fact difficult difficult difficult in the full sense of it.
I would like to get some feed- back on my
twins (Sons) date of birth 30/7/1981
thanks
ROOSTER
Once again coming for your insite through Chinese signs....
Ram Papa
1) Horse Daughter
2) Ram (Goat) Son
3) Golden Boar (Pig) Daughter
4) Ox Daughter
5) Rabbit (Hare) Daughter

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ABSURD
Mum: ROOSTER
Child: 31/7/81, also the year of the ROOSTER.
(the difference is 2 x 12 years)
ROOSTER-parent with ROOSTER-child 'difficult' under the same roof.. A **** -fight under the same roof. To be avoided under the same roof. Bye, Jaap Hillen
MARY
Whats the best match for a SNAKE-wife as Life Partner?!:
'Good': RAT, OX, CAT, DRAGON, ROOSTER.
'Perhaps': HORSE, GOAT, MONKEY, DOG
'Difficult': SNAKE
'Bad': TIGER, PIG
Bye, Jaap Hillen
FALLEN PAPA
I'm very sorry, that I don't understand your indications RAM, GOLDEN BOARD and RABBIT.
May be better to mention the dates of birth.
Bye, Jaap Hillen
Jaap Hillen

Wife: July 29th, 1972

Husband: August 22, 1973

Any advice?
CUMLEE
You are born on 7/29/72, in the year of the RAT. He on 8/22/73, in the year of the OX.
In 'Life Partner' is indicated for long term living together of
RAT-wife with OX-man 'very good'
A hundred times yes! Undisturbed bliss! The Rat can love in peace and quiet. He is always dependable enough to bring home the bacon and she is loving and doting to cook it just the way he likes it. Very satisfying and rewarding union. He is strong and silent and loves being fussed over and admired by his outgoing wife and she is content with the security and stability he provides. Both will have few complaints. Bye, Jaap Hillen
Me 7-23-75
Him 11-29-74

Thanks
Hello,
its me again.
I've met a man recently and , you know, would like if we match.

Me Dec 20th, 1958
Him Dec 23th, 1948

Thank you
D
Me too,

Me 12/10/75
Him 5/16/74
D 11/24/00
This sounds so interesting! Me too please!

Me - Feb. 27, 1973
H - May 2, 1972

Jen
Ok now I am curious but I think I am a rabbit or something like that. Dunno can't remember.

Me-Female Sept 26, 1963
Him-male December 10, 1968
Seriously, do any of you actually believe this method
of compatability?
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by dean790:
<strong>Seriously, do any of you actually believe this method
of compatability?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I'm a ox and my hubby is a dog. Gosh if I'd believe in this, I'd really have to take a "Good look" at our kids. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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