He was out with the kids at a restaurant that serves alcohol and my son told me that he was flirting with the waitress! Well, it turned out my son didn't know what actual flirting was, he just said dad kept looking at her. anyway, our anniversary was 3 days later and of course i got the card, gift, flower, etc. and had a nice weekend. Today, I found the receipt, there were 2 greeting cards purchased but i received one! At times, he will leave for hours and he doesn't tell me where he is going nor does he call to say where he's at. He is a truck driver and gone most of the week and all we have is the weekend to spend. But for the past few months, i see very little of him on the weekends too! help! If I do bring any of this up to him, he gets real defensive and says i'm crazy for thinking this stuff.

wendy--It smells bad dosen't it? Been there--ask him point blank--then get counseling--