Can a Porn Addict Chnge When w/Someone He Respects - 01/08/09 04:19 PM
This is playing on my mind night and day and I'm driving myself and others crazy with it. I need to know from others' experience to ease my mind (hopefully). My ex is also a narcissist. We were married for 13 years and I loved him with all my heart, but I couldn't deal with his habit of constantly viewing porn in all forms (he was very sneaky about it - I always caught him by accident) and making me feel bad about myself and blaming me for everything wrong with our relationship. I left him, but always hoped he would find that he missed me and that we would work things out one day. Well, that's not going to happen. Five months after the divorce was final he met the perfect person for him on-line. She's intelligent, confident and successful. They have been inseparable. This has sent me into a profound depression, as I wonder why I was never good enough. We have a son together so I have some contact with him (not much - only when absolutely necessary). Do you think he will be a reformed man now that he has someone he respects?