what to do with whats been found... ? - 02/26/13 07:10 PM
I may have put this in the wrong area before so ill try here? My apologies if this is wrong too..
Hi everyone, I was referred to this VERY HELPFUL site via a girlfriend going thru a divorce. I am 31 & bf is 30. weve been together for 2 years. After being suspicious e was hiding something I simply broke into his email via iepv andfound what he'd been hiding. He is being faithful, physically. However he was with his ex 6 years before us and they ended because he moved to the US from Panama. Well, they split and he created a fake profile account with Facebook. Since early 2011, (march / April) he has been messaging her pretending like theyve never met & just chit chatting about daily life, etc. there's no talk of meeting as I believe she wants nothing to do with him. So im led to think he's keeping tabs on her. I write this in hopes I can get a little insight as to what to do. I don't want to end our relationship because we are a great couple & besides this, lifes great despite his emotional unavailability staying hooked on this girl. I dont think they talk on a daily basis, and hes made no indication to her of revealing his REAL self.�
How do I approach this without him flying off the handle?
Hi everyone, I was referred to this VERY HELPFUL site via a girlfriend going thru a divorce. I am 31 & bf is 30. weve been together for 2 years. After being suspicious e was hiding something I simply broke into his email via iepv andfound what he'd been hiding. He is being faithful, physically. However he was with his ex 6 years before us and they ended because he moved to the US from Panama. Well, they split and he created a fake profile account with Facebook. Since early 2011, (march / April) he has been messaging her pretending like theyve never met & just chit chatting about daily life, etc. there's no talk of meeting as I believe she wants nothing to do with him. So im led to think he's keeping tabs on her. I write this in hopes I can get a little insight as to what to do. I don't want to end our relationship because we are a great couple & besides this, lifes great despite his emotional unavailability staying hooked on this girl. I dont think they talk on a daily basis, and hes made no indication to her of revealing his REAL self.�
How do I approach this without him flying off the handle?