Bf buys something against my wishes? - 09/18/13 03:51 PM
I live with my boyfriend. He wants to buy a motorcycle and I'm against it for various reasons including safety and saving money. His family is completely against it as well as mine. He keeps asking me if he can buy one or what would happen if he went out and did it anyway? Basically he implied he doesn't care how mad I'll be as long as I don't break up with him. I don't want to break up with him but if he went out and bought it against my wishes I would be extremely angry. I am currently maintaining a savings account with my money so that we will have that for our future. He doesn't have a savings and often times runs out of money in between paychecks. He also wants to pay off his credit cards. He pretty much is in debt with a car payment, personal loan, and two credit cards.
What else am I supposed to do? I told him he's not buying a motorcycle and if he does I'd be angry but don't know what else to say to him. These purchasing decisions are supposed to be made in agreement. By the way, we do plan to get married in the future. I understand we are not married yet, but having been living together we're close to it.
What else am I supposed to do? I told him he's not buying a motorcycle and if he does I'd be angry but don't know what else to say to him. These purchasing decisions are supposed to be made in agreement. By the way, we do plan to get married in the future. I understand we are not married yet, but having been living together we're close to it.