I'm back again - 10/21/15 12:19 PM
Good Morning.
So I posted a few years ago about my husband and since then we are no longer together. We could not survive the affair, but there were a lot of underlying other reasons why we are apart as well.
Annnd I'm here again. So I have another wonderful story about a man I met a few years ago and truth be told I am not the greatest at expressing my feelings in writing, or in any way I suppose. I will just do my best to post here and answer any questions that pop up after.
I am a bit of an untraditional person and I do have trouble ending things. I'll just put that out there first and foremost.
So, me and my boyfriend have been together now for almost 4 years. He's been cheating on me I believe for the entire time. In the first year I had to tell him to get off of an adult sex site. Then I caught him again messaging with people Always sketchy with his phone, hiding it, etc.
He's on disability so he stays home during the day. There are 2 of my children involved. I work and he takes care with the children. About a year ago I searched through his phone and found out that he was sexting and sending pictures to other people: MEN included!!
That was bad enough. So I put a tracking device on his phone and found out recently that he was soliciting men for sex (I think men because I could only see "you can do me in the a$$ if you want" was what someone replied to him.
Every time I catch him he swears that he was never with anyone else physically and it never got that far.
Please feel free to ask me questions and I will fill in the blanks. There are a lot of blanks because there's been a lot that has happened.
So why would he continue to do this behavior if he wasn't getting anything out of it??? That's what I ask him. Btw about a year ago I noticed he had bumps on his penis. Warts?? He told me it was from his last GF, but that was 4 years ago??? I can't believe that it takes that long for them to come out??? I haven't noticed anything on me though.
I know I sound crazy, I'm just looking to talk about this and make sense of it. It's bad, I know, and I also know it's on me for allowing it to happen over and over.
One [censored] relationship to the next one. I feel stuck. I have 2 children and I need to work. I can't afford daycare and I'm separated from my husband so I can't leave the state and go to my fathers: he lives in PA. My mom lives in VA.
Also worth noting, he admits he has a problem and is seeing a counselor. After every time I catch him he talks about amping up his counseling and getting more aggressive about it, but cmon how many times have you stepped out on me??
So I posted a few years ago about my husband and since then we are no longer together. We could not survive the affair, but there were a lot of underlying other reasons why we are apart as well.
Annnd I'm here again. So I have another wonderful story about a man I met a few years ago and truth be told I am not the greatest at expressing my feelings in writing, or in any way I suppose. I will just do my best to post here and answer any questions that pop up after.
I am a bit of an untraditional person and I do have trouble ending things. I'll just put that out there first and foremost.
So, me and my boyfriend have been together now for almost 4 years. He's been cheating on me I believe for the entire time. In the first year I had to tell him to get off of an adult sex site. Then I caught him again messaging with people Always sketchy with his phone, hiding it, etc.
He's on disability so he stays home during the day. There are 2 of my children involved. I work and he takes care with the children. About a year ago I searched through his phone and found out that he was sexting and sending pictures to other people: MEN included!!
That was bad enough. So I put a tracking device on his phone and found out recently that he was soliciting men for sex (I think men because I could only see "you can do me in the a$$ if you want" was what someone replied to him.
Every time I catch him he swears that he was never with anyone else physically and it never got that far.
Please feel free to ask me questions and I will fill in the blanks. There are a lot of blanks because there's been a lot that has happened.
So why would he continue to do this behavior if he wasn't getting anything out of it??? That's what I ask him. Btw about a year ago I noticed he had bumps on his penis. Warts?? He told me it was from his last GF, but that was 4 years ago??? I can't believe that it takes that long for them to come out??? I haven't noticed anything on me though.
I know I sound crazy, I'm just looking to talk about this and make sense of it. It's bad, I know, and I also know it's on me for allowing it to happen over and over.
One [censored] relationship to the next one. I feel stuck. I have 2 children and I need to work. I can't afford daycare and I'm separated from my husband so I can't leave the state and go to my fathers: he lives in PA. My mom lives in VA.
Also worth noting, he admits he has a problem and is seeing a counselor. After every time I catch him he talks about amping up his counseling and getting more aggressive about it, but cmon how many times have you stepped out on me??