I must have saved some of the links on Word. I will try to hyperlink these as the day goes on.

Book: Military Retirement Benefits in Divorce

http://www.usmilitary.com/4876/former-spouse-military-medical-benefits/

http://books.google.com/books?id=Bu...q=navy%20marriage%20benefits&f=false

http://books.google.com/books?id=Pf...ilitary%20marriage%20support&f=false

http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewwork.asp?id=24539

http://www.armywell-being.org/skins...4f53-8519-d071fff811fc&AllowSSL=true

http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Am-A-Navy-Wife/6542


http://www.lovingyou.com/content/groups/military/

http://www.ehow.com/how_2043748_find-navy-wife-support-group.html

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/search/navy-wife-support/

http://www.milspouse.com/usersignup.aspx?gclid=COiYyKHlqpwCFUdM5QoddkRsjg

Survival Guide for Marriage in the Military

This may be a duplicate:

http://www.helium.com/items/1533958-the-best-ways-to-stay-in-touch-with-your-military-spouse

http://military.families.com/blog/understanding-your-deployed-soldier

Saw this on Amazon.com while looking for MB books and found this list:

http://www.amazon.com/Army-Wife-Net...L8RNFF8W057E/ref=cm_lmt_srch_f_1_rsrsrs0

**edit**

I would like to add MilitaryOneSource.com to the list. It has some "self-help" for spouses and military members facing divorce but what I (and my troops) found REALLY helpful is that has connection to a counselor with no impact to the military person's career.

Military and dependents can get free formal 12-sessions with a licensed counselor when they go through MilitaryOneSource.

Also, if they don't want formal counseling they can get no-charge anonymous counseling through a MFLC (Military Family Life Consultant). The MFLC you get through the family support agency at your local post/base.

Hope that helps someone.

DTC

I didn't understand exactly for what you guys are searching.