Not sure what to do - 05/03/10 01:43 PM
I have been in a relationship with this person for about two years now. He has asked me to marry him and I said yes. I truly love this man but we have had our downs in the past. We had a long distance relationship for the first year and it was hard. During that time, he cheated on me and talked to other women over the internet a lot. I also talked to other men online but never met with anyone or even wanted to it was just the emotional need that he was not meeting that I needed to have filled. I was scared too because I had been married before and was cheated on over and over again by my first marriage that lasted 15 years. I didnt want to go thru that again with anyone. When he moved here with me and my two kids, things were so much better. We agreed to let the past stay in the past and move forward. I deleted my myspace page and my yahoo account to prove that I was completely committed. He disabled his myspace page but has not deleted his yahoo accounts (yes accounts). He tells me that he has no use for talking to other women but I still have this sense of untrust with him. Yesterday I found a picture of him with no shirt and just his neck down and his swim shorts on and I asked him why it is was on our computer. He said it was old and that I could delete it. It is things like this that make me feel uncomfortable about our relationship. I am not sure how to handle all this or even if I should bother anymore. I dont want to waste any more of my time with someone who cant completely commit to me like I can to them. Please give me some advice so I can know what to do.