Infidelity Discovered after Deployment - 08/14/13 03:01 AM
Prior to my husbands deployment I discovered he had an emotional affair with a co-worker. Only to leave a week later for 7 months. After a couple months into his return I learned he had had multiple affairs one with my best friend and he still had feelings for his co-worker.
Tonight he told me he was leaving and had chosen to leave me for his co-worker. I was not surprised however I was devastated. After we ate dinner in silence and he put our 4 yr old to bed he left with bags in hand.
He told me he is so sorry for hurting me and believes I don't deserve him. That we have far too much baggage and he wants a fresh start.
I'm terrified, mad, hurt and most of all...I feel I worked so hard for the 10 years of our relationship only for him to give up so suddenly. I would gladly take him back. I have begged for counseling. I purchased His Needs and Her Needs and Love Busters. All to never be opened.
What do I do!?
Tonight he told me he was leaving and had chosen to leave me for his co-worker. I was not surprised however I was devastated. After we ate dinner in silence and he put our 4 yr old to bed he left with bags in hand.
He told me he is so sorry for hurting me and believes I don't deserve him. That we have far too much baggage and he wants a fresh start.
I'm terrified, mad, hurt and most of all...I feel I worked so hard for the 10 years of our relationship only for him to give up so suddenly. I would gladly take him back. I have begged for counseling. I purchased His Needs and Her Needs and Love Busters. All to never be opened.
What do I do!?