Is he to broken to fix? - 02/12/13 01:42 PM
I am writing to ask your professional opinion. My husband and I have been married only 4 months. Since we got married he is so angry all the time. Constantly yelling at my children or I. He walks in the door from work and immediatley begins to bark orders. This is my second marriage and my oldest 2 children are from my 1st. He is aggressive in nature. Until a few weeks ago he had not touched me, he had however punched walls broke a TV and smashed a clothes basket.
A few weeks ago we were attending a charity function at which I was working. He drank so much that he was toasted. He ended up humiliating me infront of my peers. He accused me of having and affair with my ex husband. He called me white trash and stormed off when I refused to give him the keys to the vehical. When I got home his behavior was even worse. When I attempted to leave he ripped the keys out of the vehical and took my cell phone. He ended up hitting me in the face breaking my glasses and attempted to choke me. When I asked him to please stop that I could not breath he said "If you can talk you can breath" and squeezed harder. I went limp so he would think I had passed out. In the end I called the police made out a report and they took pictures.
He now states he is sorry is going to counceling. He says he will do anything to make this work. Is it possible for him to change? I honestly feel as if he is broken. That there is something wrong mentaly. Please give me your opinion.
Thank you.
A few weeks ago we were attending a charity function at which I was working. He drank so much that he was toasted. He ended up humiliating me infront of my peers. He accused me of having and affair with my ex husband. He called me white trash and stormed off when I refused to give him the keys to the vehical. When I got home his behavior was even worse. When I attempted to leave he ripped the keys out of the vehical and took my cell phone. He ended up hitting me in the face breaking my glasses and attempted to choke me. When I asked him to please stop that I could not breath he said "If you can talk you can breath" and squeezed harder. I went limp so he would think I had passed out. In the end I called the police made out a report and they took pictures.
He now states he is sorry is going to counceling. He says he will do anything to make this work. Is it possible for him to change? I honestly feel as if he is broken. That there is something wrong mentaly. Please give me your opinion.
Thank you.