His needs, Her Needs rookie - 04/10/13 08:42 PM
I have read both HNHN and LB. I filled out my emotional needs and gave them to my wife. She read through my answers and became very concerned that I had listed honest and openness as 7th on my list. I am having a very difficult time explaining that although my needs ranked it at 7th, it doesn't mean it isn't important to me and that i don't think it is critical in a successful marriage - because i do, it just doesn't give me warm fuzzies. She has started reading the books, but mostly jumped to the honesty and openness chapter in the HNHN book. I'm over here scratching my head about the questionaire backfiring on me. Any suggestions?