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This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Here you will find what you need as it relates to the Marriage Builders® principles that can be found in the Basic Concepts, Articles, and Q&A Columns of the Marriage Builders web site. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.

You are welcome to look around and read about discussions that are similar to your situation or discussions that are just interesting. As you will find, the individual forums below are open to the public for reading.

If you would like to post a question of your own or start a discussion, click on the "Register User" link below to begin the membership process. There is no fee for joining. However, you will become a member of a community. And with that membership you will be held responsible and accountable for following the community's Rules & Guidelines and Codes of Conduct. They are very straightforward and are required in order to keep a safe and supportive community.

One of the most important requirements for becoming a member is that you read all of Dr. Harley's Ten Basic Concepts. Click the tab "Basic Concepts" above on the header to find them. The purpose of this Forum is to help couples use those Basic Concepts to overcome marital conflicts and restore romantic love.

Many of our members have been in shoes similar if not the same as yours. They begin by asking questions and, with the help of Dr. Harley's Basic Concepts, other members point them in a direction that will solve their problem. After their problem is solved, they often stay on to help new members with their own experience, perspective, and opinion.

Sometimes you may hear alternative opinions that conflict with Dr. Harley's Ten Basic Concepts. These are often raised by those who have not solved their own marital problems, but still feel they are qualified to advise others. When this happens you can expect some members to explain why their approach won't work, and why Marriage Builders® offers a better solution. There are many who are offended when that happens, but please keep in mind that the ultimate purpose of this Forum is to discuss and learn Marriage Builders® concepts.

The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Counseling Center at the top of this page.

We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.

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Special Announcement!!!!!
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Notable Posts
A collection of Notable posts and stickies from all forums
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Re: Acronyms, Abbreviation...
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General Discussion
Discussion about Dr. Harley's concepts and their applications in your lives.
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Marriage Builders 101 (5 viewing)
After reading the Emotional Needs section of the Q&A Column, post your question here.
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Re: What is WRONG with peo...
(CWMI) - 11 minutes 41 seconds ago
Divorcing/Divorced (2 viewing)
A place for support and sharing ideas.
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Re: file/not file divorce ...
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After Divorce: Dating and Relationships (1 viewing)
An area to discuss things such as when it is ok to date again, how to go about getting back into dating, who asks who, using MB principles in developing new relationships, what has worked for you, etc.
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Re: Three years out and ga...
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Military Marriages
A place to discuss issues affecting military marriages.
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Re: Deployment: How 2 Elim...
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Newsletters
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Other Topics
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Re: Who ARE you people???
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Infidelity
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Re: Should I contact OM ...
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In Recovery (1 viewing) 21103 283461
Fall Out from EA - Do I Wa...
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Pregnancy/Child 5868 65463
Re: H plays role of dad to...
(Just Learning) - 03/11/10 07:16 PM
Pregnancy/Child (Private)
A private area for those who are dealing with pregnancy or children resulting from their own or their spouse's infidelity. Entry is by permission of the Administrator only.
Forum Entry Requirements: 45 post minimum and Member status with demonstrated understanding of Marriage Builders® principles and concepts.
Requirements to Maintain Access: Minimum of 2 posts per month and follow Marriage Builders® rules and policies.
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Ideas
Discuss creative ways to enhance marriage and family life.
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Anniversaries
We'd love to hear about your memorable experiences!
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Re: anniversary woes - sep...
(stupidw) - 03/06/10 05:03 AM
Birthdays
How creative have you been? We'd love to know what you've done!
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Re: GloveOil's gift
(GloveOil) - 11/19/09 08:15 PM
Creative Affection
Share some ways you have successfully demonstrated affection for your spouse.
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Re: Ace's Gift from the He...
(_Ace_) - 01/30/10 10:12 AM
Family Fun
How have you had fun with your family?
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Re: Mother in law
(stellaf) - 04/04/09 08:58 AM
Free/Low Cost Dates
You don't necessarily need money to spend quality time together, only a bit of creativity. We'd love to hear your ideas!
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Fishing without bait
(imagine) - 10/30/09 11:50 PM
Recreation
What are some recreation ideas that have worked for you and your spouse?
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Re: Let's go fishin'
(believer) - 03/13/10 06:52 PM
Romantic Experiences
Describe your memorable romantic experiences
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Re: Mr..romAnCE Saga - Ch...
(Pepperband) - 02/17/10 01:02 PM
Articles
Reference to and discussion of Dr. Harley's articles on this site. Please read the article before posting here.
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Infidelity: The Lessons Children Learn
Share your thoughts about the article
"Infidelity: The Lessons Children Learn."
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Re: Blended Family...........
(lildoggie) - 02/24/10 07:37 PM
How the Co-dependency Movement Is Ruining Marriages
Share your thoughts about the article
"How the Co-dependency Movement Is Ruining Marriages. "
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Co-Dependent? Not sure
(Tomorrow4sure) - 01/09/10 06:15 PM
How to Find a Good Marriage Counselor
Share your thoughts about the article
"How to Find a Good Marriage Counselor."
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Austin, Texas
(gnirlos) - 02/27/10 09:09 AM
Why Women Leave Men
Share your thoughts about the article
"Why Women Leave Men."
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Re: Supporting Unfaithful ...
(waitingman) - 03/07/09 03:34 PM
What Are Plan A and Plan B
Share your thoughts about the article
"What Are Plan A and Plan B?"
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Re: Im so confused
(BHHFSGuy) - 02/22/10 06:11 PM
Plan to Resolve Conflicts/Restore Love 93 283
Re: Husband says he feels ...
(canwemakeit) - 02/27/10 01:08 PM
What is Marriage Coaching?
Share your thoughts about the article
"What is Marriage Coaching?"
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Re: Becoming a Marriage Bu...
(Mark1952) - 12/06/09 02:03 PM
Prayer/Bible Study
Prayer requests and Bible Study Group discussion.
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Re: Devotionals
(AskMe) - 40 minutes 16 seconds ago
Women's Bible Study
Using The Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian
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Re: LADIES: The Power of a...
(RKARAR) - 02/25/10 02:43 PM
Miscellaneous
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Feedback/Technical Problems
Let us know of any suggestions or technical problems regarding the forum.
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cannot respond to my quest...
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The Marriage Builders Web Site
Comments about the Marriage Builders web site.
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Re: Email notifications??
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Dr. Harley's Books/Tapes Feedback
Let us know how Dr. Harley's books and tapes have helped your situation.
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His Needs Her Needs in Fre...
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Other Web Sites
Let others know about helpful web sites you have encountered.
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Howto choose between H and...
(lildoggie) - 04/19/09 06:53 PM
Poems (1 viewing)
A place to share your heart-felt works.
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Re: Every tiny piece of my...
(still_breathing) - 02/20/10 06:05 PM
Marriage Builders® Weekend Followup
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Emotional Needs Course - Basic Concepts
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the first lesson's assignments.
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Emotional Needs Course - Affection
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the second lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Emotional Needs Course - Sexual Fulfillment
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the third lesson's assignments.
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Emotional Needs Course - Conversation
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the fourth lesson's assignments.
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Emotional Needs Course - Recreational Companionship
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the fifth lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Emotional Needs Course - Honesty and Openness
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the sixth lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Emotional Needs Course - Physical Attractiveness
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the seventh lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Emotional Needs Course - Financial Support
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the eighth lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Emotional Needs Course - Domestic Support
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the ninth lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Emotional Needs Course - Family Commitment
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the tenth lesson's assignments.
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Emotional Needs Course - Admiration
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the eleventh lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Love Busters Course - Basic Concepts
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the first lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Love Busters Course - What is Marital Abuse?
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the second lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Selfish Demands
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the third lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Disrespectful Judgments
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the fourth lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Angry Outbursts
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the fifth lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Dishonesty
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the sixth lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Annoying Habits
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the seventh lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Independent Behavior
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the eighth lesson's assignments.
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Private Thread
Love Busters Course - Resolving Marital Conflicts
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the ninth & tenth lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Drug/Alcohol Addictions
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the eleventh lesson's assignments.
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Love Busters Course - Building with Care and Time
Follow-up discussions with Dr. Harley for the twelfth lesson's assignments.
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Questions About Infidelity
Previously posted questions and Dr. Harley's answers regarding infidelity.
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Questions about Miscellaneous Topics
Previously posted questions and Dr. Harley's answers regarding miscellaneous topics.
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