She didn’t let you see all of that stuff…because she knew that you would have said then what you are saying now “I wouldn’t have married you if I knew all of this.” You didn’t see her without make-up, or with her hair undone. You didn’t see the nasty attributes she hid from you. You didn’t see the “Dark Side.”

yes all women are coniving manipulating little things aren't they....

oohh that phrase above makes me want weep...
what a lovely view of woman that paints...

superficial crap ...without makeup
without their hair done....
blecch

and woman KNOW their spouses would NOT have married them if they knew this about them....
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I'm gonna have to go find my dark side.....

You want her to talk to you different than she used to talk to you? You want her to relate to you differently than she used to relate to you?

So are you saying that God just dismisses the marriages in which people pretty much always talked nicely to one another...

where people pretty much all along related well to one another...

Your wife may be this big problem. But if she is brought daily into the realm of your touch, your kindness, your shepherding, your care…then she won’t mind winding up as a square watermelon.

Mr. Ark prefers corn to watermellon...if he wants to try to change me in to an ear of corn....is that OK...

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