So again, in order to love like Jesus, we have to love in spite of the pain, betrayal. We have to die to ourselves and die for our wives. Anything less, is not loving our wives like Jesus loves us. And if we are not doing that...then we are in direct violation of a God0given command. And we should not expect a marriage and blessings as we had hoped

so to be a good wife and have mr. ark be a good husband..I better get busy with causing him much pain and betrayal...
cause he may be in direct violation based on my devotion to God,
family and my hubby........

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