My husband of five years has cheated three different times that I know of. He also had a threesome with one of the woman and her husband ,he has a history of mental probs, he is on paxil now but he refuses to talk to me . I try to be very calm and cool about what I recently discovered and I am giving him breathing room because he attempted suicide two months ago and also in march of last year. I just dont know what I should do ,I dont know how to deal with all of this