Question?<P>Is your distaste for some of these practices based on religious beliefs, or personal feelings? <P>I don't feel you should ever do something you don't want to do or that makes you uncomfortable or disgusted. Maybe through communication you can find a mutual ground. You can come up with ways to give him the variety he feels he needs that you can be comfortable with.<P>No one can tell you that you should change the way you feel, not even your husband, but you may find that you can both be fulfilled and adventurous within your personal limits.<P>I can assure you that you will be hard pressed to find any man that doesn't enjoy the things that I believe you are speaking of, atleast when it comes to him being on the receiving end. Sometimes men have to work at not being selfish about it.