To TheStudent:<P>Thank you! You just expressed, much more eloquently, what I was trying to say...<P>I am feeling coerced by my husband. Even though he has not come out directly and said so, I do feel like there's this threat of "do what I want, or else" hanging over my head. And I DO resent that!<P>Like I said earlier... this whole issue may end up becoming a marriage-breaker, depending on what happens next. <P>Raven...