Originally Posted by KGaa12
I will never welcome him into my home; I worry more that him and her might try stealing from us? It would be a safety issue.

Could you keep the valuables locked up and only give them access to the living room and a bathroom? When I have guests in my house they don't go into our bedroom and if they did we'd invite them to leave.

I'm talking about a day visit of a couple hours, not an overnight.

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