Hi, we've been reading this great article on the Marriage Builders site (https://www.marriagebuilders.com/how-to-overcome-sexual-aversion.htm) and it's been reallyhelpful.

A few questions though:

1. Approx how long would you imagine each step to take? (I know it's not an exact science)...but as a ballpark? days, weeks, months, years?
2. Where the article says " if any aspect of lovemaking is unpleasant to you, figure out a way of making it enjoyable"...any more clarification on how or what it means to 'figure out a way'?

Thanks in advance smile