I too agree with all you said. I learned those same lessons in five painful weeks that started on XMAS day of all days.

My H left for OW he met 3 days earlier. It is bad. He already lives with her. I had NO CLUE there was a problem. We were happy.

I have three girls and fear the day they get engaged. It is a cruel world and someone , somehow, has to raise the standards of marriage, trust, faithfullness and committment before the whole country is one big divorce.

I agree with you all the way.