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You never have to watch what you write. He has seen us all at our bests and worsts(ok, I know those are not words)...he cares as much about you guys as I do, I think!

Anyway, he knows everything about us and how I feel...so don't think you have to censor..heck, sometimes he needs to know that others think he is a dork...or even good!

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Gee you guys are awfully chatty today! Nobody even said they missed me!

Counseling got pretty heated! I was surprised that we both were still real worked up about this because with him gone we haven't talked about it in a week. But my H got frustrated and started raising his voice (he NEVER does) and then I got emotional and started crying. It started off really bad. But the good thing about MC that you will soon discover Rocked is that some topics are best left discussed with your MC. So when things get like they did today, she gets us on the right track and we can leave feeling better about things. At home, we both would have been mad for the rest of the day.

Anyway, busy day so I gotta run. Just wanted to let you know how it went.

Have fun talking...without me!
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We did, and do, miss you 2.

True, If you're H is a "reader" then out of respect he should be a "poster" too. (Altho I could get kinda jealous if another man was to join this group too often. HA)

BTW, if one of my kids posted here, would that make him/her a "poster child"???


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Awww...we missed you 2. Sorry, we didn't say it!

I am glad the counselor could help you work things through. That is very important.

Well...I guess I will sign off for the rest of the afternoon as well...I do need to do SOMETHING today...and who knows who has been trying to get thorugh to my phone.

I hope you all have a great Memorial Day weekend and do something really fun with your spouses!!!!! Thank you for being such great friends and letting me vent and just be myself with you all.

TTYL!!!!!

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What does TTYL mean?

Ditto on the weekend blessings. Will see everyone Tuesday.


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Actually Rocked..he has posted on here...well...not our thread but on the board. He does not post here, but has thought about it. I don't think he would..who knows someday he might!

See ya!

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so what do the initials stand for?


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TTYL.....talk to you later!

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gee, I never seem to be able to get offline when I say I am:)

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AOK.

PFM

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TTYL, BWICSYACIRMOPDT. MSDWK?


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Ok...you are just being silly now! You never want me to leave...do you? It is going to take me hours to figure out all of those!!!!!

I will have to do it later, I guess

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Actually, I think I remember PFM from somewhere else...I will still need to look at those long ones though!~

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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />Or I could send you the answer via email. I forgot what your current email address was though.


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Must be that old man memory...hee hee

I will figure it out...if not I will let you know.

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good luck and 10-4.


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The same thing as TTYIALB! ha!
Hi, 2! Glad to read your MC is helping so much.
Funny, I just had a little conversation with H yesterday about something I had read(me and my reading)...when men get angry (raise voice) and women cry, it means exactly the same thing...both are feeling unloved and disrespected.
I told him when he raises an octive (splg) I want to cry in my frustration.


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Heading out to my favorite place this weekend "Prescott, AZ".
Hope you all have a safe and wondeful holiday.
See you Tuesday!


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Hey all,

I hope everyone had a beautiful weekend. We did nothing..which was good and bad. We had done so much in the past two weeks that it was nice to sit at home. Plus, we basically live in the State Park, so we had stuff to do when we needed to.

It was a rough weekend for me emotionally. Those dwelling issues looming in my brain all weekend. All I kept thinking was of Rocked saying that we should stop the dwelling <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> I have been trying very hard..but I think I have told you all that I am having trouble with imagery lately. That has turned into anger and sadness and back to anger then back to not dwelling again. I know that these times are normal...but I always feel like I am totally backsliding when they happen.

Also, I had a big argument with my H about my privacy. Now you all know that I basically tell him everything...I always have. Well, the other day, I was talking to DogMom...and I hid what I was writing. I just wanted to share some of my hurt feelings and anger(which he already knew all about) with someone without worrying how he would feel if he read it. Well, he got really mad at me. I could understand, sorta. He was hurt that I was being deceitful...Can you believe that? ME! Well, I tried to resolve it without bringing up the affair, but of course that did come up. I said, H, the way you feel right now...Well, that is how I feel everyday! I constantly feel hurt and betrayed...and the conversations that you had secretly were with another woman, who you had sex with...AND TOLD HER YOU LOVE HER!!!!!! How can talking to my female friend..who I do love..but not like that<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />...and sharing feelings that he already knows about be that bad??? AAAGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!

Anyway, I hope you all had a better and more productive weekend than me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

True

oh...Rocked..I haven't figured out your code yet...but I am working on it as we speak <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> [color:"pink"] [/color]

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Tuesday morning. Back online. I'm sorry 2 you are going through an emotional rollercoaster. I'm going to start praying specifically that you experience the "peace that passes all understanding."

My fam and I enjoyed Bush Gardens Sunday after church, and a very relaxed Monday at home. Of course Rocked's famous boneless BBQ pork ribs on the grill and shrimp skewers were the delight of all. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> (BTW, I hear the best environment to grill ribs is poolside in a suberb of Las Vegas!) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Looking forward to chatting today BIWBOAITHHEID! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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OOPS!! I misread True's 5/30/05, 9:35PM post and somehow thought it was 2's. My bad. Sorry True. I'll pray the same prayer for you too. (Actually we could all use a little peace, I'm sure).

Now I'm wondering if I've misread other past posts? Was it True who spent an hour in the tub with her husband? 2 sells blankets on ebay? And Holiday loves R&B and thinks cheerleaders kick butt? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Help..I need more coffee!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />


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IDKWGIMT?


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Answer: I Don't Know What's Got Into Me Today?

Now see, this game's not that hard is it?


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