Well, the OW is now jealous of ME! She feels threatened by ME! She does not want H to talk to ME! She thinks he is going to have an affair on her with ME!

What in the H*** is this woman thinking? She doesn't want him calling me? We have three kids together!

She feels threatened by ME? Well, I guess she wouldn't feel threatened had she kept her pants up and not walked into my marriage!

She thinks we are going to have an AFFAIR??? Is that possible to have an affair with your own HUSBAND <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

AND...she is still accusing me of calling her! H asked her point blank...he said to her "I know you went into my phone and listened to my messages and heard one from my wife and that is where you got all your info from...my wife isn't calling you"

She said "oh no, someone is calling me...and I think it is her"

I told him I would NEVER call her...and if I did...I would not try to hide it..I would flat out call her!

Is this how it is in an Affair relationship! What a way to live...always feeling threatened by the wife of your boyfriend and wondering if your BF is going to spend too much time talking to or seeing his wife!

OMG! I am cracking up here now!

Maybe she's finally realizing that

"If he'll do it WITH you, he'll do it TO you".

LOL! aint that the truth!

It's really not funny.

It is drama, drama, drama

Stay away from their drama.

Susan

It is THEIR drama now! Not mine! I dont even get involved in it! If I talk to him, which we can now talk on a "friendly" basis, it is about the kids and financials...

he just mentioned how she is threatened by me, etc...I have absolutely NO INTENTIONS of getting involved in THEIR drama...It has got to be exhausting living like that! no thank you! I am very happy in my dosile (sp) environment now! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

It is their drama, but you listen to it when he talks about it.

Whether or not you realize it, if you are interested enough to listen and to post about it here, you DO have an interest in it.

That makes their drama partly yours.

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Kandi - I can see how far you have come. Certainly it has been to he$$ and back for you and those boys. Please try to continue to detach yourself from him and OW.

I realize that I am not one to give advice. You are doing so terrific with the hand you have been dealt. But, don't let him draw you into the drama and mess that he has created. You are much better than that. Hold your head high and try to remain calm, cool and collected.

Wishing you only the best.

Car

Oh Kandi, this is 2 2 2 2 funny!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Ed must be having a blast with this wonder nut. LOL!!! This must be the life he wants. He sure has made you miserable enough for it. Now he had better act happy because somebody in this triangle had better be happy and right now it not you and your children. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

This is so typical of a nutso OW. Can't seem to keep her men under her thumb. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

PBR accused me of the same thing. Remember the story I told you when PBR accused WS of 'commiting emotional adultery' on her when he decided to come back home? I got to hear that message via his voicemail. I laughed soo hard. LOL!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Ed, really can't you pick an OW with brains instead of mush in her head? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Guess the only smart choice you ever made was marrying K but you are certainly blowing that one.

K, listen you know the routine. The A was based on distrust and will fail on the same merit. You don't have to lift a finger. They are poking themselves in their own eyes and can't see the forest for the trees. Of course you know they are going to blame you because they can't even see their own fingers. LOL!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

L.

He must just love her desparate,whiny, clinging, jealousy...must be a real sexy turn on..lol. He made his bed now he must lie in it...are we happy yet??? yeah right. This is a fine mess you've got yourself in, Ed. Must be real proud of himself...such a stud.

Oh man, I guess OW is realizing her house of cards is built on a foundation of lies. Yeah right, SHE'S jealous of YOU...and doesn't want Dad to talk with YOU? How much longer do you and Dad have an excuse to talk with each other? Oh yeah, THE REST OF YOUR LIVES!!

(heavy sarcasm warning) Yeah, OW is going to win this argument...

Ditto!! These two are definitely not members of the honor society. There is actually very little honor in either of them. And eventually, they both begin to see that. That is probably one of the biggest reasons that affair relationships fail 97% of the time. It is all based on lies...and the relationship is made up of liars and people who lack honor.

In His arms.