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In email at the end of a class to a student from a teacher with no classes scheduled with her again.
See you soon-
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ok explain more - high school, college -neighbor kid???
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Without more to go on I could easily look at that and say they will see each other tomorrow (or whenever the next class is). Who are we focusing on? The teacher or the student?
Hopeful4future
The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.
BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
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College course via off campus. Email to my h with final grade with that at the end.
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Hmmm... have you approached your H about this? Does he have an EA/PA history with this person or any other person? If so, has it happened with multiple women?
Sorry if you've written your story earlier but I haven't had a lot of time to get on the boards.
Hopeful4future
The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.
BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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Possible EA in past no proof. No history with this person. Just a gut thing when he has talked about her nothing specific. No haven't talked to him don't know if I'm making something out of nothing. He will deny anything.
Just thought it strange she would put that at an end of an email when he won't have any more classes with her and wont' be near where she will be working.
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This could be nothing. It could be just the teacher's habit. Especially, if he asked a lot of questions and send her more then one email, then she may be more relaxed with him. It does not have to mean they have a relationship!
Some people say, talk to you soon to people when they hang up the phone and then don't talk for months. Some people say, I'll call you when they say good buy but have no intention of doing so....etc....etc...
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You don't want to jump the gun and accuse him when nothing is going on. I don't think it's harmful or out of line to ask your H what the "I'll see you soon" means. Maybe he has a valid reason for that.
Hopeful4future
The character of a person is defined by their actions...not their intentions. Otherwise, the world would be full of Saints.
BS: 40 (Me)
xFWW: 50
Married: 9/97
PA: 3 months
D-Day: 6/30/2005 (she revealed to me)
Divorced: 10/2/2008
Happy that I've moved on
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Thanks guys. I needed voices of reason. I have read some emails between the two of them and.....just a feeling. I will ask him but have to make sure I don't put him on the defensive. Whenever I have asked in the past about the possible EA he says he feels like I am cross examining him.
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