Lokil, since you are intelligent and braver than a lot of people, I hope that you will eventually understand that Dr. Harley�s plan for a good marriage is the best chance you have of having one. It includes absolute honesty between spouses. And so far that�s the point you have not been able to accept, but with time you may come to understand the logic behind it, after all it is quite simple. Without honesty and trust no relationship can flourish and much less a marriage.
I�m sorry your experience here has not been the best but I hope you will continue to read, because these are real life experiences, and so there is much to learn.
Your last thread has disappeared from the forum and I wouldnt be surprised if this one does too.
I guess some of us are not welcome.
Where has lokil shown herself to be braver than a lot of people?
There is an implication behind saying that her experience here "has not been the best" that people here have been nasty to her, which is not true. If her experience here "has not been the best", it is because of the way she has posted and responded.
None of her threads has disappeared from the forum. All her threads are still here, just not on the first page. The most recent thread she posted to is right here on page 2.
If "some of us" are not welcome, which perhaps you deduce from the fact that their threads are locked, that is because they argue against Dr Harley's strategies and concepts for marriage building. It is true that anti-marriage building is not welcome here.
