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However I'm not the kind of person to go and do something stupid like a certain member did. To whom and what do you vaguely refer? There was a BH on here a few years back who basically went bat snot crazy and beat the ever lovin' heck out of his WW's OM. Story made the papers and member was banned from this site. I'm pretty sure that's who he's referring to.
Age - 35
Divorce Final - 3/5/12
S - 13
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D - 8
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There was a BH on here a few years back who basically went bat snot crazy and beat the ever lovin' heck out of his WW's OM. Story made the papers and member was banned from this site. I'm pretty sure that's who he's referring to. Gee, I can barely contain my sympathy for that poor OM.
Formerly ConfuzedHusband
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WW (Now XW)
Married 4 years, No children.
EA/PA from 2/2008 to 5/2008.
DDay: 5/17/2008 - Separated 6/1/2008 - Filed 8/3/2008
Divorce final 3/2009.
Now in a committed relationship with a woman of character who loves me so much better and deeper than I ever dreamed possible. I had no idea what I was missing out on and am so grateful God gave me a free "second chance" at love and life.
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I think the OM got fired from his job because of that BH too.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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I do understand what the BH went through, but I feel like his WW was setting him up to kill OM or get sent to jail on assault charges so she would be rid of them both.
All I tried to do was extort money out of OM, but he was so smug that I got him recorded saying his family wasn't worth a single cent. At least his BW got to hear that over and over when I played it for her.
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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There was a BH on here a few years back who basically went bat snot crazy and beat the ever lovin' heck out of his WW's OM. Story made the papers and member was banned from this site. I'm pretty sure that's who he's referring to. Gee, I can barely contain my sympathy for that poor OM. I'm sure... but it's not about sympathy for the OM who deserved everything he had coming to him including the beating and losing his job (forgot about that). I wonder if the BH thinks it's worth it now that it's said and done and he likely has a criminal record. Bruises are depressingly temporary in nature; losing custody of your kids and wrecking your career because you felt the need to beat the snot out of your wife's ex lover in public has much longer lasting ramifications. Choices, choices... Shrug.
Age - 35
Divorce Final - 3/5/12
S - 13
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D - 8
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Pep, your wisdom is always spot on.  I have a "soft spot" for you because you remind me of my son. Except, you listen to me. LOL 
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