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What is it with so many WWs and foot rubs? Is it only us that notices this?
Personally, I HATE for anyone to touch my feet - I am TICKLISH - I suffer through pedicures for vanity's sake only...
Not to mention, I think feet are YUCKY!
Mrs. W
Rubbing someone's feet is supposed to connect to nerves throughout the body. Maybe they're hoping they'll find the cheating nerve and pinch it off.
Anyway... I love my feet, they are special. They do a lot for me, I don't think I could get by without them. My feet carry me wherever I want to go (although they are starting to complain a little). Me and my feet are joined forever and ever. Amen.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage ********************* “In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
What is it with so many WWs and foot rubs? Is it only us that notices this?
Personally, I HATE for anyone to touch my feet - I am TICKLISH - I suffer through pedicures for vanity's sake only...
Not to mention, I think feet are YUCKY!
Mrs. W
You and my wife both! If we were stuck on a desert island and the only way to get the raft built was for her to accept a foot rub - well we better start liking coconuts.. I know doesn't make any sense but you get the idea.
My WxW used to go out of her way to rub MY feet. I mean, she would have me soak them, she'd trim, pumice, grind, massage, oil and smooth them. She would sometimes spend two HOURS working on my feet (and I have pretty gnarly feet, if you ask me).
This was her idea. I never had that kind of treatment before, and I certainly haven't been transformed into some kind of foot "fetishist" since...
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words. St. Francis of Assissi
My WxW used to go out of her way to rub MY feet. I mean, she would have me soak them, she'd trim, pumice, grind, massage, oil and smooth them. She would sometimes spend two HOURS working on my feet (and I have pretty gnarly feet, if you ask me).
This was her idea. I never had that kind of treatment before, and I certainly haven't been transformed into some kind of foot "fetishist" since...
Wow, so we should all just file that under "too much information"?
My WxW used to go out of her way to rub MY feet. I mean, she would have me soak them, she'd trim, pumice, grind, massage, oil and smooth them. She would sometimes spend two HOURS working on my feet (and I have pretty gnarly feet, if you ask me).
This was her idea. I never had that kind of treatment before, and I certainly haven't been transformed into some kind of foot "fetishist" since...
Wow, so we should all just file that under "too much information"?
I don't know...the "grind" part sounds interesting.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage ********************* “In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
Nah. He's had that signature for at least two years. He can't STILL be 42.
I do believe that his wife is still 39, though.
This thread's about to get interesting again.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage ********************* “In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story