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Words with Friends chatting concern #2705603 02/10/13 12:21 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 10 S shirl7777 OP Junior Member
OP shirl7777 Junior Member S Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 10	My boyfriend of 3 months likes to play the game words with friends. He likes to chat and plays random people, he had an affair in his marriage. Also, he is not meeting my need for open and honest communication. I am concerned about this chatting, what should I do?

Re: Words with Friends chatting concern shirl7777 #2705606 02/10/13 12:39 PM
Joined: Aug 2012 Posts: 25 T taka Member
taka Member T Joined: Aug 2012 Posts: 25	Dump him and move on to the next candidate. What else?

Re: Words with Friends chatting concern shirl7777 #2705608 02/10/13 01:02 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Ok, we already answered this question in your last thread. Did you read our posts? Dating is a job interview for marriage. If one candidate does not do a good job of meeting your needs, you move onto the NEXT candidate. This one does not do a good job of meeting your needs and he has a history of cheating. NEXT!! Asking the same question over and over again will not get you a different answer. "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Words with Friends chatting concern MelodyLane #2705614 02/10/13 01:24 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 10 S shirl7777 OP Junior Member
OP shirl7777 Junior Member S Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 10	Thank you!

Re: Words with Friends chatting concern shirl7777 #2705622 02/10/13 02:26 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 7,449 S SusieQ Member
SusieQ Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 7,449	Originally Posted by shirl7777 Also, he is not meeting my need for open and honest communication. I am concerned about this chatting, what should I do? I believe you said in the last thread that he had an affair in his marriage and that he also has trouble telling you details. An affair doesn't happen without a secret second life. Leading a SSL (dishonest) can become a way of life for people. Having trouble sharing details of his day, about his feelings, becoming defensive when you ask him questions... BIG RED FLAGS This is my ex (serial cheater) and this is exactly the type of person that would make me run for the hills. Ddays 2007 and 2011 Plan B 6/21/11 Divorced July 2012 2 kids How to Plan B Correctly Parallel Parenting in Plan B

Re: Words with Friends chatting concern shirl7777 #2705623 02/10/13 02:33 PM
Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 9,536 Likes: 9 S SugarCane Member
SugarCane Member S Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 9,536 Likes: 9	What happened to the man you were married to when you first posted in 2007? BW Married 1989 His PA 2003-2006 2 kids.

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