ok ok.....i had someone say that we lacked communication....and that person is 100% on target. <p>so i think of a way to get H to open up. so i make up this series of questions that are as follows:<p> 1..what you like/dislike about our marriage
2.. what you like/dislike about yourself
3. what you lke/dislike about spouse
4. what are your fears?
5. what is your expectations
6. what is your goal for our marriage?
7. the last page was for questions, feelings.topics.. ect ect...<p>
anyhow...i made one for me too... and tried to get him to fill it out over the next day or so and he is very very reluctant....basically said he didnt want to do it. i said well you know what?? this isnt to hurt anyone.. but we have to get some things out.. i have to knw where i stand?? all MB stand for and say.. you ARENT doing!! and i am ssoo lonely! (LB??) you arent doing plan A! I am! and im the one who wasnt haveing her needs met!!! and then yes... i LB big time and said.. IF THINGS DO NOT CHANGE YOU ARE GOING TO END UP A DIVORCED MAN FOR THE YR 2002!!<p>*sigh.. im totally fed up, yes im the one who had the A, im the one who really screwed it up, but IF any.. ANY of my needs had ben met maybe things wouldnt have gone the way they had. Was this not a good idea?? it was supposed to be a way to see how things were.. ect ect.. not meant as a mean tool.<p> [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] mercy

hello anyone out there?? HELP???

<small>[ February 07, 2005, 09:51 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>