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Can someone point me in the right direction?
#465041 02/19/03 02:29 PM
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Okay, so I'm lost! I just joined, I am on another group online, but just picked up one of Dr. Harley's books at library, so wanted to come here too. My story- I discovered that my husband had been paying an escort that he met at a local strip club for sex. It started in Oct. 2002 and happened 5 times at various hotels. We are in counseling and plan to work on our marriage. My question is: what is plan A /plan B stuff? Any help where I should post would be appreciated. I want to post where I can get positive support for our reconciliation. Thanks so much!
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Re: Can someone point me in the right direction?
#465042 02/20/03 07:22 PM
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Hello RTH
Welcome to MB. I am sorry to hear of your plight. You both plan to work on your marriage so you have a headstart on many of the MB members.
Plan A and Plan B are primarily designed to enable you to work on yourself and your marriage when your spouse is having an EMA. Plan A is a more of a lifelong approach while Plan B involves no contact or fulfilling of the WS's EN's while the EMA continues. Plan B has the advantage of preserving the BS's love for their spouse while the BS decides what to do.
I am not an expert but feel the best place for you to post is in "General Questions" as there are more visitors there. Other boards which you will find helpful are "In Recovery" and "Emotional Needs".
This link is the page on the MB site dealing with Plan A Plan B.

Plan A Plan B

"To move forwards, sometimes you need to take a step back."

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