My husband and I have been married for 6 months. He has a five year old daughter who is really a great kid. She and I get along very well, but the problem is that he never gets my opinion on matters that concern her. He gets her every other weekend and wants me to be a part of her life, yet he makes decisions without me. I can't handle this, it really upsets me a great deal. He also lets her tell him what she is gonna do. To me, a five year old doesn't do that. Example: We got her this weekend and I was really looking forward to seeing her, yet when I got home she was packing to go spend the night with her cousin. He did not bother to ask me if I had plans or not, then when I confronted him about it, he said that was her decision not his. Now, to me I think the child should ask the parent not tell the parent. It caused a major argument and I am not giving in, simply because I think that I am right. He wants me to spend time with her and do all the fun things but not get involved in the other things, like decision making. This is not the first time that this has happened. Now I am at the point, that when she visits, I will do my own thing for the weekend and let them do theirs.<BR>He tends to want to please his parents, when it comes to her, than he does me. They really like to hang around the whole time she is here. I can't handle that neither. I feel like we should do our own thing, and visit the grandparents at other times. He confronts his mother about everything that goes on with his daughter, before he asks me. Now what is wrong with this picture?