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Hi JL --<P>I'm wondering if you still keep in touch with my H's OW. I don't mean to be bold or brash about it, but I have to admit feeling not a little discomfort pouring out my heart and soul knowing that you might still be in touch with her.<P>I really need this forum right now and I hope confidentiality is respected regardless of who we know and who we don't.<P>Respectfully,<P>Francis
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Francis,<P>The answer is no. I will not break any confidentiality in any case. But no, there is no contact at this point. You know far more about everything than I do and I prefer it that way.<P>Neither of your situations are something I am very wild about. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) Although OM leaving is a good start. <P>Hope this eases your mind.<P>God Bless,<P>JL
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Hi JL -<P>Thank you. I know you and she had a special relationship. I appreciate your confidentiality in this case.<P><P>------------------<BR>Take good care, Francis
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Francis,<P>I don't know what you do know or think you now, but our relationship was not particularly special. I tried to help her as I have many on this board. <P>She was in great pain and confusion and I did my best to help her. She was worthy of that help.<P>JL
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JL -<P>Yes, I agree she was worthy of that help. She's a very special person. I wasn't intimating anything--I've just heard from hubby that you two were in close contact. Nothing more.<P>Take good care,<BR>Francis<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Francis (edited November 22, 2000).]
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OW was posting as recently as 1.5 months ago. You can do a search on this forum by her username for more info.
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Hi mouse -<P>Gawd, I wish I hadn't know that...I did a search, looked up some recent emails of her's. Okay, now it's painful. <P>------------------<BR>Take good care, Francis
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