Hi<P>I never meant to belittle you or your situation by implying that your situation is as easy as "no contact" and "running". Believe me, I KNOW all too well the power that a relationship of this type can have over you. The power was so overwhelming. I think that experiencing that type of power was the closest thing to experiencing drowning...the feeling was all-encompassing. You're right: Experiencing this type of "addiction" has made me have a deeper understanding and compassion for those who are struggling to quit smoking, quit drugs, quit eating so much, etc. It's TOUGH.<P>I DO UNDERSTAND. I do sympathize/empathize with every painful breath that you take. I KNOW.<P>Once again, I apologize. I never meant to sound like I thought that you were "whimpy". You're not a whimp...you're just trapped. I've been there and done that...<P>I wish you peace.<P>Jill