how do you keep holding on ? - 08/25/99 02:07 PM
I'm afraid I'm driving him away. I've become so needy these past four weeks. H said he still hasn't really decided,but he took money out of our savings to put down on an apartment. Sounds like he's decided to me. We had a good day yesterday, but last night I pushed him for some answeres. We both got upset. The ow is perfect. He is filled with resentment toward me, my children, feels as if he hasn't been loved or appreciated in years. Yes, there have been problems, but they never were that bad till he got involved. He said that was when he stopped caring. He said there are walls up toward me. He can't trust me to not hurt him and there is no intimacy. He sees how nice its been these four weeks but can't trust that it will stay that way. What do I do now? How do you keep on loving and being pleasant without any response in return? I feel empty.